Verse (Click for Chapter) New International Version a contemptible woman who gets married, and a servant who displaces her mistress. New Living Translation a bitter woman who finally gets a husband, a servant girl who supplants her mistress. English Standard Version an unloved woman when she gets a husband, and a maidservant when she displaces her mistress. Berean Standard Bible an unloved woman who marries, and a maidservant who supplants her mistress. Berean Literal Bible under a hated woman when she is married, and a maidservant when she dispossesses her mistress. King James Bible For an odious woman when she is married; and an handmaid that is heir to her mistress. New King James Version A hateful woman when she is married, And a maidservant who succeeds her mistress. New American Standard Bible Under an unloved woman when she gets a husband, And a female servant when she dispossesses her mistress. NASB 1995 Under an unloved woman when she gets a husband, And a maidservant when she supplants her mistress. NASB 1977 Under an unloved woman when she gets a husband, And a maidservant when she supplants her mistress. Legacy Standard Bible Under an unloved woman when she gets a husband, And a servant-girl when she supplants her mistress. Amplified Bible Under an unloved woman when she gets married, And under a maidservant when she supplants her mistress. Berean Annotated Bible an unloved woman who marries, and a maidservant who supplants her mistress. Christian Standard Bible an unloved woman when she marries, and a servant girl when she ousts her queen. Holman Christian Standard Bible an unloved woman when she marries, and a servant girl when she ousts her queen. American Standard Version For an odious woman when she is married; And a handmaid that is heir to her mistress. Contemporary English Version a hateful woman who finds a husband, and a slave who takes the place of the woman who owns her. English Revised Version For an odious woman when she is married; and an handmaid that is heir to her mistress. GOD'S WORD® Translation a woman who is unloved when she gets married, a maid when she replaces her mistress. Good News Translation a hateful woman who gets married, and a servant woman who takes the place of her mistress. International Standard Version an unloved woman when she finds a husband, and a servant girl who inherits from her mistress. NET Bible under an unloved woman who is married, and under a female servant who dispossesses her mistress. New Heart English Bible for an unloved woman when she is married; and a handmaid who is heir to her mistress. Webster's Bible Translation For an odious woman when she is married; and a handmaid that is heir to her mistress. Majority Text Translations Majority Standard Biblean unloved woman who marries, and a maidservant who supplants her mistress. World English Bible for an unloved woman when she is married, and a servant who is heir to her mistress. Literal Translations Literal Standard VersionFor a hated one when she rules, "" And a maidservant when she succeeds her mistress. Berean Literal Bible under a hated woman when she is married, and a maidservant when she dispossesses her mistress. Young's Literal Translation For a hated one when she ruleth, And a maid-servant when she succeedeth her mistress. Smith's Literal Translation For a hated woman when she shall be married and a maid when she shall inherit to her mistress. Catholic Translations Douay-Rheims BibleBy an odious woman when she is married: and by a bondwoman when she is heir to her mistress. Catholic Public Domain Version by a hateful woman when she has been taken in matrimony, and by a handmaid when she has been heir to her mistress. New American Bible Under an unloved woman who is wed, and a maidservant who displaces her mistress. New Revised Standard Version an unloved woman when she gets a husband, and a maid when she succeeds her mistress. Translations from Aramaic Lamsa BibleUnder an odious woman when she is married; and under a maidservant who ousts her mistress. Peshitta Holy Bible Translated And under a hateful woman that is married to a man, and under a Maidservant that dismisses her mistress. OT Translations JPS Tanakh 1917For an odious woman when she is married; And a handmaid that is heir to her mistress. Brenton Septuagint Translation or if a maid-servant should cast out her own mistress; and if a hateful woman should marry a good man. Additional Translations ... Audio Bible Context The Words of Agur…22a servant who becomes king, a fool who is filled with food, 23 an unloved woman who marries, and a maidservant who supplants her mistress. 24Four things on earth are small, yet they are exceedingly wise:… Cross References an unloved woman who marries, Deuteronomy 21:15-17 If a man has two wives, one beloved and the other unloved, and both bear him sons, but the unloved wife has the firstborn son, / when that man assigns his inheritance to his sons he must not appoint the son of the beloved wife as the firstborn over the son of the unloved wife. / Instead, he must acknowledge the firstborn, the son of his unloved wife, by giving him a double portion of all that he has. For that son is the firstfruits of his father’s strength; the right of the firstborn belongs to him. Genesis 29:31-33 When the LORD saw that Leah was unloved, He opened her womb; but Rachel was barren. / And Leah conceived and gave birth to a son, and she named him Reuben, for she said, “The LORD has seen my affliction. Surely my husband will love me now.” / Again she conceived and gave birth to a son, and she said, “Because the LORD has heard that I am unloved, He has given me this son as well.” So she named him Simeon. 1 Samuel 1:4-6 And whenever the day came for Elkanah to present his sacrifice, he would give portions to his wife Peninnah and to all her sons and daughters. / But to Hannah he would give a double portion, for he loved her even though the LORD had closed her womb. / Because the LORD had closed Hannah’s womb, her rival would provoke her viciously to taunt her. and a maidservant who supplants her mistress. Genesis 16:4-6 And he slept with Hagar, and she conceived. But when Hagar realized that she was pregnant, she began to despise her mistress. / Then Sarai said to Abram, “May the wrong done to me be upon you! I delivered my servant into your arms, and ever since she saw that she was pregnant, she has treated me with contempt. May the LORD judge between you and me.” / “Here,” said Abram, “your servant is in your hands. Do whatever you want with her.” Then Sarai treated Hagar so harshly that she fled from her. Genesis 21:9-12 But Sarah saw that the son whom Hagar the Egyptian had borne to Abraham was mocking her son, / and she said to Abraham, “Expel the slave woman and her son, for the slave woman’s son will never share in the inheritance with my son Isaac!” / Now this matter distressed Abraham greatly because it concerned his son Ishmael. … Galatians 4:22-31 For it is written that Abraham had two sons, one by the slave woman and the other by the free woman. / His son by the slave woman was born according to the flesh, but his son by the free woman was born through the promise. / These things serve as illustrations, for the women represent two covenants. One covenant is from Mount Sinai and bears children into slavery: This is Hagar. … 1 Samuel 1:6-7 Because the LORD had closed Hannah’s womb, her rival would provoke her viciously to taunt her. / And this went on year after year. Whenever Hannah went up to the house of the LORD, her rival taunted her until she wept and would not eat. 1 Kings 21:25 (Surely there was never one like Ahab, who sold himself to do evil in the sight of the LORD, incited by his wife Jezebel. Esther 1:12 Queen Vashti, however, refused to come at the king’s command brought by his eunuchs. And the king became furious, and his anger burned within him. Esther 3:5-6 When Haman saw that Mordecai would not bow down or pay him homage, he was filled with rage. / And when he learned the identity of Mordecai’s people, he scorned the notion of laying hands on Mordecai alone. Instead, he sought to destroy all of Mordecai’s people, the Jews, throughout the kingdom of Xerxes. 2 Samuel 6:16 As the ark of the LORD was entering the City of David, Saul’s daughter Michal looked down from a window and saw King David leaping and dancing before the LORD, and she despised him in her heart. 1 Kings 11:3-4 He had seven hundred wives of royal birth and three hundred concubines—and his wives turned his heart away. / For when Solomon grew old, his wives turned his heart after other gods, and he was not wholeheartedly devoted to the LORD his God, as his father David had been. Genesis 21:10 and she said to Abraham, “Expel the slave woman and her son, for the slave woman’s son will never share in the inheritance with my son Isaac!” Genesis 30:1 When Rachel saw that she was not bearing any children for Jacob, she envied her sister. “Give me children, or I will die!” she said to Jacob. 1 Samuel 18:8-9 And Saul was furious and resented this song. “They have ascribed tens of thousands to David,” he said, “but only thousands to me. What more can he have but the kingdom?” / And from that day forward Saul kept a jealous eye on David. 2 Kings 9:30-33 Now when Jehu arrived in Jezreel, Jezebel heard of it. So she painted her eyes, adorned her head, and looked down from a window. / And as Jehu entered the gate, she asked, “Have you come in peace, O Zimri, murderer of your master?” / He looked up at the window and called out, “Who is on my side? Who?” And two or three eunuchs looked down at him. … Treasury of Scripture For an odious woman when she is married; and an handmaid that is heir to her mistress. an odious Proverbs 19:13 A foolish son is the calamity of his father: and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping. Proverbs 21:9,19 It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house… Proverbs 27:15 A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike. an handmaid Proverbs 29:21 He that delicately bringeth up his servant from a child shall have him become his son at the length. Jump to Previous Gets Handmaid Hated Heir Husband Maid Maidservant Maid-Servant Married Master's Mistress Odious Ruleth Servant-Girl Succeeds Unloved WifeJump to Next Gets Handmaid Hated Heir Husband Maid Maidservant Maid-Servant Married Master's Mistress Odious Ruleth Servant-Girl Succeeds Unloved WifeProverbs 30 1. Agur's confession of his faith7. The two points of his prayer 10. The meanest are not to be wronged 11. Four wicked generations 15. Four things insatiable 24. four things exceeding wise 29. Four things stately 32. Wrath is to be prevented an unloved woman who marries This phrase highlights the social and emotional dynamics of marriage in ancient Israel. In biblical times, marriage was often arranged, and love was not always the primary factor. An "unloved woman" may refer to someone who is married out of obligation or duty rather than affection, similar to Leah's experience with Jacob (Genesis 29:31). The term "unloved" can also imply a lack of favor or acceptance, which could lead to discord within the household. The Bible often emphasizes the importance of love and respect in marriage (Ephesians 5:25-33), and this proverb warns of the potential turmoil when these elements are absent. and a maidservant who supplants her mistress Persons / Places / Events 1. Unloved WomanThis refers to a woman who, despite being married, does not receive love or affection from her husband. In the cultural context of ancient Israel, marriage was often arranged, and love was not always a given. The Hebrew word used here can imply a woman who is despised or rejected. 2. Maidservant A female servant or slave in a household. In ancient times, maidservants had specific roles and were often considered lower in status than the mistress of the house. 3. Mistress The woman of the house, typically the wife of the master. She held authority over the household and the servants. 4. Supplanting This term refers to taking the place of someone else, often through underhanded means. In this context, it suggests a reversal of roles where the maidservant takes the place of the mistress. 5. Marriage A covenantal relationship that, in biblical times, was foundational to family and societal structure. The dynamics within a marriage were significant for the stability of the household. Teaching Points The Dangers of DiscontentmentDiscontentment in relationships can lead to strife and disorder. It is crucial to seek contentment in Christ and trust in His provision and timing. The Importance of Love in Marriage Love is foundational to a healthy marriage. Husbands and wives are called to love and respect each other, reflecting Christ's love for the Church. God's Compassion for the Unloved God sees and cares for those who feel unloved or rejected. He is a source of comfort and strength, and His love is unfailing. Role Reversals and Their Consequences When roles are reversed inappropriately, it can lead to chaos and conflict. It is important to respect God-ordained roles and seek harmony in relationships. Seeking God's Wisdom in Relationships Proverbs emphasizes the need for wisdom in all areas of life, including relationships. Seeking God's guidance can help navigate complex relational dynamics. Bible Study Questions and Answers 1. What is the meaning of Proverbs 30:23?2. How does Proverbs 30:23 illustrate the consequences of pride and arrogance? 3. What lessons can we learn about humility from Proverbs 30:23? 4. How does Proverbs 30:23 connect with the theme of wisdom in Proverbs? 5. How can we apply the warnings of Proverbs 30:23 in modern relationships? 6. What other scriptures emphasize the dangers of pride similar to Proverbs 30:23? 7. What does Proverbs 30:23 mean by "an unloved woman who marries"? 8. How does Proverbs 30:23 challenge traditional views on marriage? 9. Why is an unloved woman marrying considered unsettling in Proverbs 30:23? 10. What are the top 10 Lessons from Proverbs 30? 11. What is the summary of Leah and Rachel's story? 12. Who was Bilhah in the Bible? 13. How can one person realistically fulfill all the ideal qualities described in Proverbs 31:10-31 without ever falling short? 14. Who is Agur in the Book of Proverbs? What Does Proverbs 30:23 Mean An unloved woman who marries“An unloved woman who marries” (Proverbs 30:23) • Scripture paints marriage as a covenant built on love and mutual self-giving; see Ephesians 5:25–33, Colossians 3:19. • When a woman enters that covenant still carrying the wounds of rejection, the relationship can become a stage for bitterness rather than blessing. Leah’s experience illustrates this tension: “When the LORD saw that Leah was unloved, He opened her womb” (Genesis 29:31). Leah’s yearning for Jacob’s affection colored every aspect of their home. • The proverb warns that such unresolved hurt can shake a household—and even a community—because resentment often overflows. Compare 1 Samuel 1:6–7, where Peninnah’s taunts sprang from insecurity and poisoned family life. • The “earth trembles” (Proverbs 30:21) because God designed marriage to reflect His faithful love (Isaiah 54:5). When love is absent, the marriage covenant is distorted, and stability gives way to strife. A maidservant who supplants her mistress “…and a maidservant who supplants her mistress” (Proverbs 30:23) • A servant girl taking her mistress’s place overturns established order. Hagar’s story embodies the warning: “When she knew she was pregnant, she began to despise her mistress” (Genesis 16:4). The ripple effects—envy, conflict, divided loyalties—reached every member of Abraham’s household (Genesis 21:9–11). • Scripture consistently stresses humility for those elevated to new roles. Joseph remained humble when raised from prison to power (Genesis 41:16, 51–52). A servant who lacks that humility becomes proud, echoing the danger noted in Proverbs 28:25: “A greedy man stirs up strife.” • The proverb also cautions leaders: careless promotion can destabilize a home, workplace, or nation, as seen when Solomon elevated Jeroboam (1 Kings 11:28–40), leading to rebellion. • God honors proper authority structures (Romans 13:1; 1 Peter 2:18). When these are disregarded, turmoil follows. summary Proverbs 30:23 highlights two upheavals that make “the earth tremble”: a marriage devoid of love and a servant displacing her mistress. Both scenarios expose hearts unprepared for new roles—hearts marked by hurt or pride. God’s design is stable, love-filled relationships ordered by humility and faithful authority. When His pattern is ignored, homes and societies shake; when embraced, they flourish. (23) For an odious woman when she is married.--She pays off, with interest, the slights which she had formerly to endure from her married friends.An handmaid that is heir to her mistress, and who is nervously anxious to preserve her newly-acquired dignity. Verse 23. - For an odious woman when she is married; or, under an unloved woman when she is married. The sentence does not refer to an unbeloved wife, a Leah, becoming the favourite, a Rachel; the expression, "when she is married," can hardly have this sense; but the gnome speaks of a woman who has passed much of her life without love, having nothing about her attractive either in looks, attainments, or manner, and is consequently soured and ill-tempered. If such a one does at last win a husband, she uses her new position to vex those who formerly depreciated her, and to make them as miserable as she cam And a handmaid that is heir to her mistress. The maidservant that obtains her mistress's property, either by supplanting her or by right of inheritance, is supposed to make a bad use of it, to become conceited, arrogant, and odious to all around her. The LXX. transposes the last two members of the comparison, placing the unloved woman in the fourth place as the most intolerable of all: "And if a maidservant should cast out (ἐκβάλη, Genesis 21:10) her own mistress, and a hateful woman should obtain a good husband."Parallel Commentaries ... Hebrew an unloved womanשְׂ֭נוּאָה (nū·’āh) Verb - Qal - QalPassParticiple - feminine singular Strong's 8130: To hate who כִּ֣י (kî) Conjunction Strong's 3588: A relative conjunction marries, תִבָּעֵ֑ל (ṯib·bā·‘êl) Verb - Nifal - Imperfect - third person feminine singular Strong's 1166: To be master, to marry and a maidservant וְ֝שִׁפְחָ֗ה (wə·šip̄·ḥāh) Conjunctive waw | Noun - feminine singular Strong's 8198: Maid, maidservant who כִּֽי־ (kî-) Conjunction Strong's 3588: A relative conjunction supplants תִירַ֥שׁ (ṯî·raš) Verb - Qal - Imperfect - third person feminine singular Strong's 3423: To occupy, to seize, to rob, to inherit, to expel, to impoverish, to ruin her mistress. גְּבִרְתָּֽהּ׃ (gə·ḇir·tāh) Noun - feminine singular construct | third person feminine singular Strong's 1404: Lady, queen, mistress Links Proverbs 30:23 NIVProverbs 30:23 NLT Proverbs 30:23 ESV Proverbs 30:23 NASB Proverbs 30:23 KJV Proverbs 30:23 BibleApps.com Proverbs 30:23 Biblia Paralela Proverbs 30:23 Chinese Bible Proverbs 30:23 French Bible Proverbs 30:23 Catholic Bible OT Poetry: Proverbs 30:23 For an unloved woman when she (Prov. 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