Esther 5:10
New International Version
Nevertheless, Haman restrained himself and went home. Calling together his friends and Zeresh, his wife,

New Living Translation
However, he restrained himself and went on home. Then Haman gathered together his friends and Zeresh, his wife,

English Standard Version
Nevertheless, Haman restrained himself and went home, and he sent and brought his friends and his wife Zeresh.

Berean Standard Bible
Nevertheless, Haman restrained himself and went home. And calling for his friends and his wife Zeresh,

King James Bible
Nevertheless Haman refrained himself: and when he came home, he sent and called for his friends, and Zeresh his wife.

New King James Version
Nevertheless Haman restrained himself and went home, and he sent and called for his friends and his wife Zeresh.

New American Standard Bible
Haman controlled himself, however, and went to his house. But he sent for his friends and his wife Zeresh.

NASB 1995
Haman controlled himself, however, went to his house and sent for his friends and his wife Zeresh.

NASB 1977
Haman controlled himself, however, went to his house, and sent for his friends and his wife Zeresh.

Legacy Standard Bible
But Haman controlled himself, went to his house, and sent for and brought his friends and his wife Zeresh.

Amplified Bible
Nevertheless, Haman controlled himself and went home. There he sent for his friends and his wife Zeresh.

Christian Standard Bible
Yet Haman controlled himself and went home. He sent for his friends and his wife Zeresh to join him.

Holman Christian Standard Bible
Yet Haman controlled himself and went home. He sent for his friends and his wife Zeresh to join him.

American Standard Version
Nevertheless Haman refrained himself, and went home; and he sent and fetched his friends and Zeresh his wife.

Contemporary English Version
but he did not say a thing. When Haman got home, he called together his friends and his wife Zeresh

English Revised Version
Nevertheless Haman refrained himself, and went home; and he sent and fetched his friends and Zeresh his wife.

GOD'S WORD® Translation
However, Haman controlled himself. He went home and sent for his friends and his wife Zeresh.

Good News Translation
But he controlled himself and went on home. Then he invited his friends to his house and asked his wife Zeresh to join them.

International Standard Version
Haman restrained himself, went to his house, and sent for his friends and his wife Zeresh.

Majority Standard Bible
Nevertheless, Haman restrained himself and went home. And calling for his friends and his wife Zeresh,

NET Bible
But Haman restrained himself and went on to his home. He then sent for his friends to join him, along with his wife Zeresh.

New Heart English Bible
Nevertheless Haman restrained himself, and went home. There, he sent and called for his friends and Zeresh his wife.

Webster's Bible Translation
Nevertheless, Haman refrained himself: and when he came home, he sent and called for his friends, and Zeresh his wife.

World English Bible
Nevertheless Haman restrained himself, and went home. There, he sent and called for his friends and Zeresh his wife.
Literal Translations
Literal Standard Version
And Haman forces himself, and comes into his house, and sends, and brings in his friends, and his wife Zeresh,

Young's Literal Translation
And Haman forceth himself, and cometh in unto his house, and sendeth, and bringeth in his friends, and Zeresh his wife,

Smith's Literal Translation
And Haman will contain himself, and will go in to his house; and he will send and cause his friends to come, and Zeresh his wife.
Catholic Translations
Douay-Rheims Bible
But dissembling his anger, and returning into his house, he called together to him his friends, and Zares his wife:

Catholic Public Domain Version
But, concealing his anger and returning into his house, he gathered to him his friends and Zeresh, his wife.

New American Bible
Haman restrained himself, however, and went home, where he summoned his friends and his wife Zeresh.

New Revised Standard Version
nevertheless Haman restrained himself and went home. Then he sent and called for his friends and his wife Zeresh,
Translations from Aramaic
Lamsa Bible
Nevertheless Haman restrained himself; and when he went to his home, he sent and brought all his friends and Zeresh his wife.

Peshitta Holy Bible Translated
And Haman was enraged, and he went on to his house, and he sent out, and all his friends came, and Zaresh his wife.
OT Translations
JPS Tanakh 1917
Nevertheless Haman refrained himself, and went home; and he sent and fetched his friends and Zeresh his wife.

Brenton Septuagint Translation
And having gone into his own house, he called his friends, and his wife Zosara.

Additional Translations ...
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Context
Haman's Plot Against Mordecai
9That day Haman went out full of joy and glad of heart. At the king’s gate, however, he saw Mordecai, who did not rise or tremble in fear at his presence. And Haman was filled with rage toward Mordecai. 10Nevertheless, Haman restrained himself and went home. And calling for his friends and his wife Zeresh, 11Haman recounted to them his glorious wealth, his many sons, and all the ways the king had honored and promoted him over the other officials and servants.…

Cross References
Esther 3:5-6
When Haman saw that Mordecai would not bow down or pay him homage, he was filled with rage. / And when he learned the identity of Mordecai’s people, he scorned the notion of laying hands on Mordecai alone. Instead, he sought to destroy all of Mordecai’s people, the Jews, throughout the kingdom of Xerxes.

Esther 6:6-9
Haman entered, and the king asked him, “What should be done for the man whom the king is delighted to honor?” Now Haman thought to himself, “Whom would the king be delighted to honor more than me?” / And Haman told the king, “For the man whom the king is delighted to honor, / have them bring a royal robe that the king himself has worn and a horse on which the king himself has ridden—one with a royal crest placed on its head. ...

Esther 7:5-6
Then King Xerxes spoke up and asked Queen Esther, “Who is this, and where is the one who would devise such a scheme?” / Esther replied, “The adversary and enemy is this wicked man—Haman!” And Haman stood in terror before the king and queen.

Esther 9:25
But when it came before the king, he commanded by letter that the wicked scheme which Haman had devised against the Jews should come back upon his own head, and that he and his sons should be hanged on the gallows.

Proverbs 16:18
Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.

Proverbs 27:4
Wrath is cruel and anger is like a flood, but who can withstand jealousy?

Daniel 5:20
But when his heart became arrogant and his spirit was hardened with pride, he was deposed from his royal throne, and his glory was taken from him.

Daniel 6:4
Thus the administrators and satraps sought a charge against Daniel concerning the kingdom, but they could find no charge or corruption, because he was trustworthy, and no negligence or corruption was found in him.

Psalm 37:12-13
The wicked scheme against the righteous and gnash their teeth at them, / but the Lord laughs, seeing that their day is coming.

Psalm 73:6-9
Therefore pride is their necklace; a garment of violence covers them. / From their prosperity proceeds iniquity; the imaginations of their hearts run wild. / They mock and speak with malice; with arrogance they threaten oppression. ...

Psalm 10:2-3
In pride the wicked pursue the needy; let them be caught in the schemes they devise. / For the wicked man boasts in the cravings of his heart; he blesses the greedy and reviles the LORD.

James 4:6
But He gives us more grace. This is why it says: “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”

1 Peter 5:5
Young men, in the same way, submit yourselves to your elders. And all of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”

Luke 14:11
For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”

Matthew 23:12
For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.


Treasury of Scripture

Nevertheless Haman refrained himself: and when he came home, he sent and called for his friends, and Zeresh his wife.

refrained.

Genesis 43:30,31
And Joseph made haste; for his bowels did yearn upon his brother: and he sought where to weep; and he entered into his chamber, and wept there…

Genesis 45:1
Then Joseph could not refrain himself before all them that stood by him; and he cried, Cause every man to go out from me. And there stood no man with him, while Joseph made himself known unto his brethren.

2 Samuel 13:22,23
And Absalom spake unto his brother Amnon neither good nor bad: for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar…

called for his friends.

Esther 6:13
And Haman told Zeresh his wife and all his friends every thing that had befallen him. Then said his wise men and Zeresh his wife unto him, If Mordecai be of the seed of the Jews, before whom thou hast begun to fall, thou shalt not prevail against him, but shalt surely fall before him.

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Esther 5
1. Esther, adventuring on the king's favor, obtains the grace of the golden sceptre,
4. and invites the king and Haman to a banquet.
6. She, being encouraged by the king in her suit, invites them to another banquet.
9. Haman, proud of his advancement, repines at the contempt of Mordecai.
14. By the counsel of Zeresh he prepares for him a gallows.














Nevertheless, Haman restrained himself
The word "nevertheless" indicates a contrast or a turning point in the narrative. Haman, despite his anger and frustration, chooses to exercise self-control. The Hebrew root for "restrained" is "אָפַק" (afak), which means to hold back or contain oneself. This moment of restraint is significant, as it shows Haman's ability to suppress his immediate emotions for a strategic purpose. In a broader biblical context, self-control is a virtue often highlighted in Scripture, such as in Proverbs 16:32, which states, "Better a patient person than a warrior, one with self-control than one who takes a city." Haman's restraint, however, is not born out of righteousness but rather a calculated move to further his own agenda.

and went home
The phrase "went home" signifies a retreat to a personal space, a place of comfort and privacy. In the ancient Near Eastern context, one's home was not only a physical dwelling but also a symbol of one's status and personal life. Haman's return home suggests a moment of introspection and planning. It is a pause in the narrative where Haman seeks solace and counsel from those closest to him. This action reflects a common human tendency to seek refuge and advice from familiar surroundings and trusted individuals when faced with challenges.

And calling for his friends and his wife Zeresh
The act of "calling for his friends and his wife Zeresh" indicates Haman's reliance on his inner circle for support and counsel. In the Hebrew culture, family and friends played a crucial role in decision-making processes. The mention of "friends" suggests that Haman had a network of allies who shared in his ambitions and possibly his animosity towards the Jews. His wife, Zeresh, is specifically named, highlighting her influence and partnership in Haman's life. The inclusion of Zeresh in this narrative underscores the importance of spousal support and counsel in biblical times. This gathering of confidants sets the stage for the subsequent events, where Haman's pride and plans are further revealed. In a spiritual sense, this moment serves as a reminder of the impact that one's close relationships can have on their decisions and actions, for better or worse.

(10) Zeresh.--A name probably derived from an old Persian word for "gold." According to the Targum she was the daughter of Tatnai, "the governour on this side the river," i.e., of that part of the Persian Empire which lay beyond the Euphrates ( Ezra 5:3).

Verse 10. - Haman refrained himself. That is to say, so far as speech and act went. He said nothing; he did not strike his insulter; he did not order his servants to drag the fellow outside the gate and give him the bastinado. But he did not "refrain his heart." He allowed the affront that he had received to remain in his mind and rankle there. It poisoned his happiness, marred all his enjoyment, filled him with hatred and rage. When he came home, he sent and called for his friends. It was not so much to be partners in his joy that Haman called his friends around him as to be companions in his grief. It is true that his speech to them was chiefly occupied with boasts; but the true intention of the discourse is seen in its close - "All this availeth me nothing," etc.

Parallel Commentaries ...


Hebrew
Nevertheless, Haman
הָמָ֔ן (hā·mān)
Noun - proper - masculine singular
Strong's 2001: Haman -- to rage, be turbulent

restrained himself
וַיִּתְאַפַּ֣ק (way·yiṯ·’ap·paq)
Conjunctive waw | Verb - Hitpael - Consecutive imperfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 662: To contain, abstain

and went
וַיָּב֖וֹא (way·yā·ḇō·w)
Conjunctive waw | Verb - Qal - Consecutive imperfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 935: To come in, come, go in, go

home.
בֵּית֑וֹ (bê·ṯōw)
Noun - masculine singular construct | third person masculine singular
Strong's 1004: A house

And calling for
וַיִּשְׁלַ֛ח (way·yiš·laḥ)
Conjunctive waw | Verb - Qal - Consecutive imperfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 7971: To send away, for, out

his friends
אֹהֲבָ֖יו (’ō·hă·ḇāw)
Verb - Qal - Participle - masculine plural construct | third person masculine singular
Strong's 157: To have affection f

and his wife
אִשְׁתּֽוֹ׃ (’iš·tōw)
Noun - feminine singular construct | third person masculine singular
Strong's 802: Woman, wife, female

Zeresh,
זֶ֥רֶשׁ (ze·reš)
Noun - proper - feminine singular
Strong's 2238: Zeresh -- wife of Haman


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