1 Timothy 3:4
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New International Version
He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him, and he must do so in a manner worthy of full respect.

New Living Translation
He must manage his own family well, having children who respect and obey him.

English Standard Version
He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive,

New American Standard Bible
He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity

King James Bible
One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;

Holman Christian Standard Bible
one who manages his own household competently, having his children under control with all dignity.

International Standard Version
He must manage his own family well and have children who are submissive and respectful in every way.

NET Bible
He must manage his own household well and keep his children in control without losing his dignity.

Aramaic Bible in Plain English
And he governs his house well, and holds his children in subjection with all purity.

GOD'S WORD® Translation
He must manage his own family well. His children should respectfully obey him.

Jubilee Bible 2000
one that rules well his own house, having his children in subjection with all integrity;

King James 2000 Bible
One that rules well his own house, having his children in subjection with all respect;

American King James Version
One that rules well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;

American Standard Version
one that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;

Douay-Rheims Bible
One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all chastity.

Darby Bible Translation
conducting his own house well, having [his] children in subjection with all gravity;

English Revised Version
one that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;

Webster's Bible Translation
One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;

Weymouth New Testament
but ruling his own household wisely and well, with children kept under control with true dignity.

World English Bible
one who rules his own house well, having children in subjection with all reverence;

Young's Literal Translation
his own house leading well, having children in subjection with all gravity,
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Matthew Henry's Concise Commentary

3:1-7 If a man desired the pastoral office, and from love to Christ, and the souls of men, was ready to deny himself, and undergo hardships by devoting himself to that service, he sought to be employed in a good work, and his desire should be approved, provided he was qualified for the office. A minister must give as little occasion for blame as can be, lest he bring reproach upon his office. He must be sober, temperate, moderate in all his actions, and in the use of all creature-comforts. Sobriety and watchfulness are put together in Scripture, they assist one the other. The families of ministers ought to be examples of good to all other families. We should take heed of pride; it is a sin that turned angels into devils. He must be of good repute among his neighbours, and under no reproach from his former life. To encourage all faithful ministers, we have Christ's gracious word of promise, Lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world, Mt 28:20. And he will fit his ministers for their work, and carry them through difficulties with comfort, and reward their faithfulness.

Pulpit Commentary

Verse 4. - One that ruleth well his own house. The ἐπίσκοπος is one who has to preside over and rule (προίστασθαι) the house of God (1 Timothy 5:17; Romans 12:8; 1 Thessalonians 5:12), as the high priest was called "ruler of the house of God" (1 Chronicles 9:11; Nehemiah 11:11). So in Justin Martyr the bishop is called ὁ προεστῶς τῶν ἀδελφῶν ('Apology,' 11) and simply ὁ προεστῶς, and similarly in Hebrews 13:7 the clergy are οἱ ἡγούμενοι ὑμῶν, "they which have the rule over you." How needful, then, is it that he should rule well his own house, and have his own children in subjection! The testimony given in this passage to a married clergy is too clear to need any comment. In subjection (ἐν ὑποταγῇ); as above, 1 Timothy 2:11, where see note. For the sense, comp. Titus 1:6, which leads us to apply the words, with all gravity (σεμνότητος), the contrary to "riot," ἀσωτία), to the children. The children of the ἐπίσκοπος are to exhibit that seriousness and sobriety of conduct which is in accordance with their father's office, μετά, together with, as in 1 Timothy 1:14.

Gill's Exposition of the Entire Bible

One that ruleth well his own house,.... His family, wife, children, and servants; and is not to be understood of his body, and of keeping of that under, and of preserving it chaste and temperate, as appears from what follows:

having his children in subjection with all gravity; keeping a good decorum in his family; obliging his children to observe his orders, and especially the rules of God's word; and not as Eli, who did not use his authority, or lay his commands upon his sons, nor restrain them from evil, or severely reprove them for their sins, but neglected them, and was too mild and gentle with them;

1 Samuel 2:23 1 Samuel 3:13 but like Abraham, who not only taught, but commanded his children and his household, to keep the way of the Lord; Genesis 18:19 and so should those act who are in such an office as is here treated of; and should not only rule well in their families, preside over them, go before them, and set an example to them, and keep their children in obedience and subjection; but this should be "with all gravity": not only in the master of the family, but in the children; who as their father is, or should be, should be brought up in, and used to gravity in words and in dress; and in the whole of their deportment and conversation. This may he observed against the Papists, who forbid marriage to the ministers of the Gospel.

Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary

4. ruleth—Greek, "presiding over."

his own house—children and servants, as contrasted with "the church" (house) of God (1Ti 3:5, 15) which he may be called on to preside over.

having his children—rather as Greek, "having children (who are) in subjection" (Tit 1:6).

gravity—propriety: reverent modesty on the part of the children [Alford]. The fact that he has children who are in subjection to him in all gravity, is the recommendation in his favor as one likely to rule well the Church.

1 Timothy 3:4 Additional Commentaries
Context
Qualifications for Overseers
3not addicted to wine or pugnacious, but gentle, peaceable, free from the love of money. 4He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity 5(but if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of the church of God?),…
Cross References
Ephesians 5:24
Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

1 Timothy 3:12
A deacon must be faithful to his wife and must manage his children and his household well.
Treasury of Scripture

One that rules well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;

ruleth.

1 Timothy 3:12 Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children …

Genesis 18:19 For I know him, that he will command his children and his household …

Joshua 24:15 And if it seem evil to you to serve the LORD, choose you this day …

Psalm 101:2-8 I will behave myself wisely in a perfect way. O when will you come …

Acts 10:2 A devout man, and one that feared God with all his house, which gave …

Titus 1:6 If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children …

with.

Philippians 4:8 Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are …

Titus 2:2,7 That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in …

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