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Matthew 18:21, 22, 35
Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother who sins against me? Up to seven times?" . . .

1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. . . .

Ephesians 4:31, 32
Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, outcry and slander, along with every form of malice. . . .

Colossians 3:12, 13
Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. . . .

I repent.

Matthew 5:44
But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,

Matthew 6:12, 14, 15
And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors; . . .

Matthew 18:16
But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that 'every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.'

Romans 12:20
On the contrary, "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink. For in so doing, you will heap burning coals on his head."

2 Thessalonians 3:13, 14
But as for you, brothers, do not grow weary in well-doing. . . .