let.

Ephesians 5:25-27
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her . . .

1 Peter 3:7
Husbands, in the same way, treat your wives with consideration as a delicate vessel, and with honor as fellow heirs of the gracious gift of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered.

a shame.

1 Corinthians 14:34
women are to be silent in the churches. They are not permitted to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says.

1 Corinthians 11:6, 14
If a woman does not cover her head, let her hair be cut off. And if it is shameful for a woman to have her hair cut or shaved off, she should cover her head. . . .

Ephesians 5:12
For it is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret.