2 Samuel 19:37
Please let your servant return, that I may die in my own city near the tomb of my father and mother. But here is your servant Chimham. Let him cross over with my lord the king, and do for him what is good in your sight."
Please let your servant return,

Barzillai addressed David with the deference of a loyal subject to his rightful king. Having sustained David during Absalom’s rebellion, he sought no reward beyond the freedom to return quietly to his home in Gilead.

Gen 24:54-56 Then he and the men with him ate and drank…
Gen 30:25-26 Now after Rachel had given birth to Joseph,…
1Ki 11:21 When Hadad heard in Egypt that David had rested…

that I may die in my own city

At about eighty years old, Barzillai recognized the nearness of death and desired to spend his remaining days in the place God had given him. His request reflects gratitude without attachment to royal privilege or public honor.

1Ki 2:10 Then David rested with his fathers and was buried…
1Ki 14:31 And Rehoboam rested with his fathers and was buried…
1Sa 25:1 When Samuel died, all Israel gathered to mourn for him;…

near the tomb of my father and mother.

Burial among one’s ancestors preserved the visible bond of family, inheritance, and covenant identity. Barzillai desired to rest in the land and community where his family had lived before him.

2Sa 2:32 And they took Asahel and buried him in his father’s tomb…
Gen 23:19-20 After this, Abraham buried his wife Sarah…
Gen 49:29-32 Then Jacob instructed them, “I am about to be gathered…

But here is your servant Chimham.

Barzillai instead commended Chimham to David’s care, likely his son. Through Chimham, Barzillai’s household would remain connected to David’s kingdom, and his faithful service to the king would be remembered in the next generation.

Jer 41:17 And they went and stayed in Geruth Chimham, near Bethlehem,…
1Ki 2:7 But show loving devotion to the sons of Barzillai…
2Sa 17:27-29 When David came to Mahanaim, he was met by Shobi…

Let him cross over with my lord the king,

Chimham would accompany David across the Jordan as David returned to Jerusalem after the defeat of Absalom. The crossing marked the restoration of David’s reign and the renewed unity of Israel under the Lord’s anointed king.

2Sa 17:22 So David and all the people with him got up…
2Sa 15:21 But Ittai answered the king, “As surely as the LORD lives…
Rut 1:16-17 But Ruth replied: “Do not urge me to leave you”…

and do for him what is good in your sight.”

Barzillai trusted David to show kindness to Chimham according to royal wisdom and favor. David honored that trust, and years later he charged Solomon to show kindness to the sons of Barzillai, remembering their loyalty in David’s distress (1 Kings 2:7).

2Sa 15:26 But if He should say, ‘I do not delight in you,’…
1Sa 3:18 So Samuel told him everything and did not hide…
2Sa 10:12 Be strong and let us fight bravely for our people…

Persons / Places / Events
1. Barzillai the Gileadite
An elderly and wealthy man who supported King David during Absalom's rebellion. He is the speaker in this verse, expressing his desire to return to his homeland.

2. Chimham
Likely the son of Barzillai, whom Barzillai offers to King David to serve in his place. This act demonstrates Barzillai's loyalty and trust in David.

3. King David
The king of Israel, returning to Jerusalem after the defeat of Absalom. He is the recipient of Barzillai's request and offer.

4. Gilead
A region east of the Jordan River, where Barzillai resides. It is significant as a place of refuge and support for David during his time of need.

5. Absalom's Rebellion
The backdrop of this event, where David's son Absalom attempted to usurp the throne, leading to a civil conflict within Israel.
Teaching Points
Loyalty and Faithfulness
Barzillai's actions remind us of the importance of loyalty and faithfulness to those we serve and support, especially in times of adversity.

Generational Blessings
Barzillai's offer of Chimham to David illustrates the concept of generational blessings and the importance of preparing the next generation to serve and lead.

Honoring Elders
David's respect for Barzillai's wishes underscores the biblical principle of honoring our elders and valuing their wisdom and desires.

Selflessness in Service
Barzillai's willingness to step aside for Chimham's benefit teaches us about selflessness and the joy of seeing others succeed.
Bible Study Questions
1. How does Barzillai's loyalty to David during Absalom's rebellion inspire us to support our leaders in challenging times?

2. In what ways can we prepare the next generation, like Barzillai did with Chimham, to serve and lead in our communities and churches?

3. How can we apply the principle of honoring our elders in our daily interactions with family and community members?

4. What are some practical ways we can demonstrate selflessness in our service to others, following Barzillai's example?

5. How do the themes of loyalty and faithfulness in 2 Samuel 19:37 connect with other biblical accounts, such as Ruth's commitment to Naomi?
Connections to Other Scriptures
1 Kings 2:7
David instructs Solomon to show kindness to the sons of Barzillai, indicating the lasting impact of Barzillai's loyalty and the fulfillment of David's promise.

Ruth 1:16-17
Ruth's commitment to Naomi parallels Barzillai's loyalty to David, highlighting themes of faithfulness and devotion.

Proverbs 17:17
This verse speaks to the value of a friend who loves at all times, akin to Barzillai's unwavering support for David.
Dying At HomeHomiletic Review2 Samuel 19:37
Going Home to Die2 Samuel 19:37
Love of Home2 Samuel 19:37
Old BarzillaiB. Dale 2 Samuel 19:31-40
BarzillaiThomas S. Dickson, M. A.2 Samuel 19:31-41
Barzillai an Example of Loyalty in Perilous TimesA. Bumstead, B. A.2 Samuel 19:31-41
Barzillai the GileaditeJ. Ker, D. D.2 Samuel 19:31-41
Barzillai the Great Man in SocietyE. Monro.2 Samuel 19:31-41
Barzillai, the Gideonite; Or, the Influence of AgeHomilist2 Samuel 19:31-41
David and BarzillaiW. G. Blaikie, D. D.2 Samuel 19:31-41
The Lives of CourtiersJ. Saurin.2 Samuel 19:31-41
Barzillai's Refusal of David's Invitation to Jerusalem ConsideredJ. Orton.2 Samuel 19:34-40
Life's Winter2 Samuel 19:34-40
The Sabbath of LifeDr. Chalmers.2 Samuel 19:34-40
Venerable Age: its Trials and ConsolationsW. F. Morgan, D. D.2 Samuel 19:34-40
People
Abiathar, Abishai, Absalom, Amasa, Barzillai, Benjamin, Benjamites, Chimham, David, Gera, Israelites, Joab, Joseph, Mephibosheth, Saul, Shimei, Zadok, Zeruiah, Ziba
Places
Bahurim, Gilgal, Jerusalem, Jordan River, Mahanaim, Rogelim
Topics
Behold, Buried, Burying-place, Chimham, Cross, Death, Die, Grave, However, Kimham, Pass, Please, Pleases, Resting-place, Return, Seem, Seems, Servant, Sight, Tomb, Town, Turn, Whatever
Dictionary of Bible Themes
2 Samuel 19:37

     5339   home
     8300   love, and the world
     9050   tombs

2 Samuel 19:31-37

     5296   disabilities

2 Samuel 19:34-37

     8358   weakness, physical

Library
National Sorrows and National Lessons
On the illness or the Prince of Wales. Chapel Royal, St James's, December 17th, 1871. 2 Sam. xix. 14. "He bowed the heart of all the men of Judah, even as the heart of one man." No circumstances can be more different, thank God, than those under which the heart of the men of Judah was bowed when their king commander appealed to them, and those which have, in the last few days, bowed the heart of this nation as the heart of one man. But the feeling called out in each case was the same--Loyalty,
Charles Kingsley—All Saints' Day and Other Sermons

Barzillai
BY REV. GEORGE MILLIGAN, M.A., D.D. "There is nothing," says Socrates to Cephalus in the Republic, "I like better than conversing with aged men. For I regard them as travellers who have gone a journey which I too may have to go, and of whom it is right to learn the character of the way, whether it is rugged or difficult, or smooth and easy" (p. 328 E.). It is to such an aged traveller that we are introduced in the person of Barzillai the Gileadite. And though he is one of the lesser-known characters
George Milligan—Men of the Bible; Some Lesser-Known

Samuel
Alike from the literary and the historical point of view, the book[1] of Samuel stands midway between the book of Judges and the book of Kings. As we have already seen, the Deuteronomic book of Judges in all probability ran into Samuel and ended in ch. xii.; while the story of David, begun in Samuel, embraces the first two chapters of the first book of Kings. The book of Samuel is not very happily named, as much of it is devoted to Saul and the greater part to David; yet it is not altogether inappropriate,
John Edgar McFadyen—Introduction to the Old Testament

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