Sorrow of David for Absalom
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The sorrow of King David for his son Absalom is a poignant episode in the biblical narrative, illustrating the deep and complex emotions of a father mourning the loss of his child, despite the child's rebellion. This event is primarily recorded in 2 Samuel 18:33, where David's grief is vividly expressed following the death of Absalom.

Background

Absalom was the third son of David, known for his striking appearance and charismatic personality (2 Samuel 14:25-27). Despite these attributes, Absalom's life was marked by tragedy and rebellion. After avenging the rape of his sister Tamar by killing his half-brother Amnon, Absalom fled and lived in exile for several years (2 Samuel 13:23-38). Eventually, he was allowed to return to Jerusalem but remained estranged from his father for a time (2 Samuel 14:21-24).

Absalom's ambition and discontent with his father's rule led him to conspire against David, ultimately declaring himself king in Hebron (2 Samuel 15:10). This rebellion forced David to flee Jerusalem, and a civil war ensued between the forces loyal to David and those supporting Absalom.

David's Grief

The conflict culminated in the Battle of the Forest of Ephraim, where Absalom's forces were defeated, and Absalom himself was killed by Joab, the commander of David's army, despite David's explicit instructions to deal gently with him (2 Samuel 18:5, 14-15). Upon receiving the news of Absalom's death, David was overcome with grief. The Bible records his lament in 2 Samuel 18:33 : "The king was shaken and went up to the chamber over the gate and wept. As he walked, he cried out, 'O my son Absalom, O my son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you, O Absalom, my son, my son!'"

David's sorrow is profound, reflecting not only the loss of a son but also the pain of a fractured relationship and the consequences of familial and national strife. His lamentation reveals the depth of his love for Absalom, despite the latter's betrayal and rebellion.

Theological and Moral Reflections

David's sorrow for Absalom is a powerful reminder of the complexities of parental love and the heartache that can accompany familial discord. It underscores the themes of forgiveness, reconciliation, and the enduring nature of a parent's love, even in the face of rebellion and estrangement. David's grief also highlights the personal cost of sin and the far-reaching consequences of actions that disrupt God's intended order.

This narrative invites reflection on the nature of leadership, the responsibilities of a father, and the importance of seeking God's guidance in times of personal and communal crisis. David's lament for Absalom serves as a poignant example of the human condition, marked by both love and loss, and the hope for redemption and restoration through God's grace.
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2 Samuel 18:33
And the king was much moved, and went up to the chamber over the gate, and wept: and as he went, thus he said, O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died for you, O Absalom, my son, my son!
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2 Samuel 19:1-8
And it was told Joab, Behold, the king weeps and mourns for Absalom.
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David's Sorrow.
... DAVID'S SORROW. David had a very beautiful son named Absalom. From the crown of
his head to the soles of his feet there was no fault to be seen in him. ...
/.../lathbury/childs story of the bible/chapter xxv davids sorrow.htm

How Absalom Murdered Amnon, who had Forced his Own Sister; and How ...
... But Jonadab, the son of his brother Shemeah, entreated him not to indulge his sorrow
so far, for as ... 4. Now David had a design to send to Absalom, not that ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 8 how absalom murdered.htm

The History of David
... Amnon; and anon it was told to the King David that Absalom had slain all the king's
sons. Wherefore the king was in great heaviness and sorrow, but anon after ...
/.../wells/bible stories and religious classics/the history of david.htm

The Wail of a Broken Heart
... cool enough to measure the full effect of the news on David; and though he clearly
discerns the sorrow, has not ... Absalom was dead, and he had killed him. ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture f/the wail of a broken.htm

David Appointing Solomon
... murders of Abner and Amasa, and his slaying of Absalom had made ... when they should
fight are likely to end their mirth with sorrow. David's one stroke was enough ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture f/david appointing solomon.htm

How, when Absalom was Beaten, He was Caught in a Tree by his Hair ...
... who have been justly slain; for had Absalom gotten the ... he made the king leave off
his sorrow, and brought ... So David changed his habit, and exposed himself in a ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 10 how when absalom.htm

No Sorrow Like Messiah's Sorrow
... we may answer, without hesitation, Never was suffering or sorrow like that which ...
In like manner, David, when his rebellious son Absalom conspired against ...
//christianbookshelf.org/newton/messiah vol 1/sermon xxiii no sorrow like.htm

Chastisements.
... bones waxed old," so now in his sorrow and sickness ... throws light upon the singular
passiveness of David during the maturing of Absalom's conspiracy, and ...
//christianbookshelf.org/maclaren/the life of david/xiv chastisements.htm

Sermon.
... From the mouth of David it meant I think only, Does Absalom still live? ... It was just
the sorrow of another father at an earlier time, also in the first throes ...
//christianbookshelf.org/wright/is the young man absalom safe/sermon.htm

That Sadness is Almost Always Useless, Yea Contrary to the Service ...
... 578] There is then a sorrow or sadness ... light of heaven [580] Thus was Jacob sad on
the news of the death of his Joseph, and David for that of his Absalom. ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter xxi that sadness is.htm

Resources
What is penitence? What does the Bible say about penitence? | GotQuestions.org

What is a lament in the Bible? | GotQuestions.org

What is the prayer of Jabez? | GotQuestions.org

Sorrow: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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