1 Samuel 25:31
then my lord will have no remorse or guilt of conscience over needless bloodshed and revenge. And when the LORD has dealt well with my lord, may you remember your maidservant."
then my lord
The phrase "my lord" is a term of respect and submission, used by Abigail to address David. In Hebrew, "adoni" is often used to denote authority and honor. Abigail's use of this term reflects her recognition of David's future kingship and her wisdom in approaching him with humility. Historically, this reflects the societal norms of ancient Israel, where hierarchy and respect were paramount in interactions.

will have no remorse or troubled conscience
The Hebrew word for "remorse" is "mikshol," which can also mean a stumbling block or offense. Abigail is appealing to David's conscience, urging him to avoid actions that would later cause him guilt or spiritual stumbling. This reflects a deep understanding of the moral and spiritual implications of one's actions, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a clear conscience before God.

for having shed blood needlessly
The shedding of blood, or "shafakh dam" in Hebrew, is a serious offense in biblical law, often associated with murder or unjust violence. Abigail's plea highlights the sanctity of life and the importance of justice, reminding David of the divine law that prohibits unnecessary violence. This reflects the biblical principle that vengeance belongs to the Lord, not to individuals.

or for having avenged himself
The concept of vengeance, "naqam" in Hebrew, is reserved for God alone in the biblical narrative. Abigail's words remind David of the divine prerogative of justice, urging him to trust in God's timing and judgment rather than taking matters into his own hands. This is a recurring theme in Scripture, where believers are called to exercise patience and faith in God's justice.

And when the LORD has dealt well with my lord
The phrase "dealt well" translates from the Hebrew "yatav," meaning to do good or to prosper. Abigail expresses faith in God's providence and blessing upon David's life. This reflects a deep trust in God's promises and His ability to bring about good for those who follow His ways. It is an encouragement to David to remain faithful and patient for God's timing.

may you remember your maidservant
Abigail refers to herself as "your maidservant," using the Hebrew "amah," a term denoting humility and service. Her request to be remembered is not just a plea for personal favor but an acknowledgment of her role in God's plan. This reflects the biblical theme of God using humble and willing servants to accomplish His purposes, highlighting the value of humility and service in the eyes of God.

Persons / Places / Events
1. David
The future king of Israel, who is in the wilderness with his men, seeking refuge from King Saul. He is on the verge of avenging himself against Nabal.

2. Abigail
The intelligent and discerning wife of Nabal, who intervenes to prevent David from committing bloodshed. She is the speaker in this verse.

3. Nabal
A wealthy but foolish man whose name means "fool." He insults David, prompting David's anger.

4. Carmel
The region where Nabal's property is located and where the events of this chapter take place.

5. The LORD
The covenant God of Israel, who is invoked by Abigail as the one who ultimately deals with justice and vengeance.
Teaching Points
The Wisdom of Restraint
Abigail's intervention teaches the importance of exercising restraint and seeking God's justice rather than taking matters into our own hands.

The Role of Peacemakers
Abigail exemplifies the role of a peacemaker, showing how one person's wisdom and courage can prevent violence and promote peace.

Conscience and Integrity
David is reminded of the value of maintaining a clear conscience before God, avoiding actions that would lead to regret and guilt.

God's Sovereignty in Justice
Trusting in God's timing and justice is crucial, as He is the ultimate judge who will deal rightly with every situation.

The Power of Humility and Intercession
Abigail's humble approach and intercession for her household demonstrate the power of humility and advocacy in resolving conflicts.
Bible Study Questions
1. How does Abigail's approach to David reflect the principles found in Proverbs 15:1, and how can we apply this in our own conflicts?

2. In what ways does this passage illustrate the importance of trusting God's sovereignty in matters of justice and vengeance, as seen in Romans 12:19?

3. How can we act as peacemakers in our communities, following the example of Abigail and the teaching of Matthew 5:9?

4. What are some practical steps we can take to ensure our actions align with maintaining a clear conscience before God, as David is reminded in this passage?

5. How does Abigail's humility and wisdom challenge us to intercede for others and advocate for peace in our relationships and communities?
Connections to Other Scriptures
Romans 12:19
This verse echoes the principle that vengeance belongs to the Lord, reinforcing Abigail's counsel to David not to take matters into his own hands.

Proverbs 15:1
Abigail's gentle and wise response to David's anger is a practical illustration of this proverb, which speaks to the power of a soft answer to turn away wrath.

Matthew 5:9
Abigail acts as a peacemaker, aligning with Jesus' teaching on the blessedness of those who seek peace.
David's Activity and AdvancementB. Dale 1 Samuel 25:1-44
The Prosperous FoolB. Dale 1 Samuel 25:2-39
AbigailB. Dale 1 Samuel 25:14-42
People
Abigail, Ahinoam, Caleb, David, Israelites, Jesse, Jezreel, Laish, Maon, Michal, Nabal, Palti, Paltiel, Phalti, Samuel, Saul
Places
Carmel, Gallim, Hebron, Maon, Paran, Ramah
Topics
Avenged, Blood, Bloodshed, Burden, Cause, Causeless, Conscience, Deal, Deals, Dealt, Either, Grief, Handmaid, Hast, Heart, Lord's, Maidservant, Master, Needless, Nought, Offence, Offense, Pangs, Punishment, Redress, Remember, Remembered, Restraining, Servant, Shed, Staggering, Stumbling-block, Success, Taking, Troubled, Vengeance, Wrongs
Dictionary of Bible Themes
1 Samuel 25:2-35

     5745   women

1 Samuel 25:4-35

     5325   gifts

1 Samuel 25:14-31

     8458   peacemakers

1 Samuel 25:14-35

     5744   wife
     5922   prudence

1 Samuel 25:30-34

     5033   knowledge, of good and evil

Library
If Then to Sin, that Others May not Commit a Worse Sin...
21. If then to sin, that others may not commit a worse sin, either against us or against any, without doubt we ought not; it is to be considered in that which Lot did, whether it be an example which we ought to imitate, or rather one which we ought to avoid. For it seems meet to be more looked into and noted, that, when so horrible an evil from the most flagitious impiety of the Sodomites was impending over his guests, which he wished to ward off and was not able, to such a degree may even that just
St. Augustine—Against Lying

Jeremiah, a Lesson for the Disappointed.
"Be not afraid of their faces: for I am with thee to deliver thee, saith the Lord."--Jeremiah i. 8. The Prophets were ever ungratefully treated by the Israelites, they were resisted, their warnings neglected, their good services forgotten. But there was this difference between the earlier and the later Prophets; the earlier lived and died in honour among their people,--in outward honour; though hated and thwarted by the wicked, they were exalted to high places, and ruled in the congregation.
John Henry Newman—Parochial and Plain Sermons, Vol. VIII

How the Meek and the Passionate are to be Admonished.
(Admonition 17.) Differently to be admonished are the meek and the passionate. For sometimes the meek, when they are in authority, suffer from the torpor of sloth, which is a kindred disposition, and as it were placed hard by. And for the most part from the laxity of too great gentleness they soften the force of strictness beyond need. But on the other hand the passionate, in that they are swept on into frenzy of mind by the impulse of anger, break up the calm of quietness, and so throw into
Leo the Great—Writings of Leo the Great

Appendix xix. On Eternal Punishment, According to the Rabbis and the New Testament
THE Parables of the Ten Virgins' and of the Unfaithful Servant' close with a Discourse on the Last Things,' the final Judgment, and the fate of those Christ's Righ Hand and at His Left (St. Matt. xxv. 31-46). This final Judgment by our Lord forms a fundamental article in the Creed of the Church. It is the Christ Who comes, accompanied by the Angelic Host, and sits down on the throne of His Glory, when all nations are gathered before Him. Then the final separation is made, and joy or sorrow awarded
Alfred Edersheim—The Life and Times of Jesus the Messiah

Letters of St. Bernard
I To Malachy. 1141.[924] (Epistle 341.) To the venerable lord and most blessed father, Malachy, by the grace of God archbishop of the Irish, legate of the Apostolic See, Brother Bernard called to be abbot of Clairvaux, [desiring] to find grace with the Lord. 1. Amid the manifold anxieties and cares of my heart,[925] by the multitude of which my soul is sore vexed,[926] the brothers coming from a far country[927] that they may serve the Lord,[928] thy letter, and thy staff, they comfort
H. J. Lawlor—St. Bernard of Clairvaux's Life of St. Malachy of Armagh

The Exile Continued.
"So David fled, and escaped and came to Samuel to Ramah, and told him all that Saul had done unto him. And he and Samuel went and dwelt in Naioth" (1 Sam. xix. 18)--or, as the word probably means, in the collection of students' dwellings, inhabited by the sons of the prophets, where possibly there may have been some kind of right of sanctuary. Driven thence by Saul's following him, and having had one last sorrowful hour of Jonathan's companionship--the last but one on earth--he fled to Nob, whither
Alexander Maclaren—The Life of David

Barzillai
BY REV. GEORGE MILLIGAN, M.A., D.D. "There is nothing," says Socrates to Cephalus in the Republic, "I like better than conversing with aged men. For I regard them as travellers who have gone a journey which I too may have to go, and of whom it is right to learn the character of the way, whether it is rugged or difficult, or smooth and easy" (p. 328 E.). It is to such an aged traveller that we are introduced in the person of Barzillai the Gileadite. And though he is one of the lesser-known characters
George Milligan—Men of the Bible; Some Lesser-Known

The Section Chap. I. -iii.
The question which here above all engages our attention, and requires to be answered, is this: Whether that which is reported in these chapters did, or did not, actually and outwardly take place. The history of the inquiries connected with this question is found most fully in Marckius's "Diatribe de uxore fornicationum," Leyden, 1696, reprinted in the Commentary on the Minor Prophets by the same author. The various views may be divided into three classes. 1. It is maintained by very many interpreters,
Ernst Wilhelm Hengstenberg—Christology of the Old Testament

The Promise in 2 Samuel, Chap. vii.
The Messianic prophecy, as we have seen, began at a time long anterior to that of David. Even in Genesis, we perceived [Pg 131] it, increasing more and more in distinctness. There is at first only the general promise that the seed of the woman should obtain the victory over the kingdom of the evil one;--then, that the salvation should come through the descendants of Shem;--then, from among them Abraham is marked out,--of his sons, Isaac,--from among his sons, Jacob,--and from among the twelve sons
Ernst Wilhelm Hengstenberg—Christology of the Old Testament

Samuel
Alike from the literary and the historical point of view, the book[1] of Samuel stands midway between the book of Judges and the book of Kings. As we have already seen, the Deuteronomic book of Judges in all probability ran into Samuel and ended in ch. xii.; while the story of David, begun in Samuel, embraces the first two chapters of the first book of Kings. The book of Samuel is not very happily named, as much of it is devoted to Saul and the greater part to David; yet it is not altogether inappropriate,
John Edgar McFadyen—Introduction to the Old Testament

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