when.

Proverbs 15:1, 2
A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. . . .

Ecclesiastes 9:17
The calm words of the wise are heeded over the shouts of a ruler among fools.

he dismissed.

Psalm 65:7
You stilled the roaring of the seas, the pounding of their waves, and the tumult of the nations.

2 Corinthians 1:8-10
We do not want you to be unaware, brothers, of the hardships we encountered in the province of Asia. We were under a burden far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired even of life. . . .