Getting a Divorce
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Introduction

Divorce, the legal dissolution of a marriage, is a topic addressed in various parts of the Bible. The Scriptures provide guidance on the sanctity of marriage, the conditions under which divorce may be permissible, and the spiritual implications of ending a marital union. This entry explores the biblical perspective on divorce, drawing from both the Old and New Testaments.

Old Testament Context

In the Old Testament, marriage is portrayed as a covenantal relationship established by God. The book of Genesis describes the union of Adam and Eve as the foundational model for marriage: "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh" (Genesis 2:24). This union is intended to be lifelong and exclusive.

The Mosaic Law addresses divorce in Deuteronomy 24:1-4, where it is permitted under certain circumstances: "If a man marries a woman but she becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, he may write her a certificate of divorce, hand it to her, and send her away from his house" (Deuteronomy 24:1). This provision was intended to regulate divorce practices and protect the rights of the woman.

Prophetic Writings

The prophets often spoke against the casual treatment of marriage and divorce. Malachi 2:16 states, "For I hate divorce, says the LORD, the God of Israel, and I hate it when people clothe themselves with injustice, says the LORD Almighty" . This passage underscores God's disapproval of divorce and highlights the importance of faithfulness in marriage.

New Testament Teachings

In the New Testament, Jesus addresses the issue of divorce in the Gospels. In Matthew 19:3-9, the Pharisees question Jesus about the legality of divorce. Jesus responds by reaffirming the sanctity of marriage: "So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate" (Matthew 19:6). He acknowledges that Moses permitted divorce due to the hardness of human hearts but emphasizes that it was not intended from the beginning.

Jesus further clarifies the conditions under which divorce is permissible: "I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery" (Matthew 19:9). This teaching highlights sexual immorality as a legitimate ground for divorce, emphasizing the seriousness of marital fidelity.

The Apostle Paul also addresses divorce in his epistles. In 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Paul advises married couples to remain together: "To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife" . Paul acknowledges that separation may occur but encourages reconciliation and the maintenance of the marital bond.

Spiritual Implications

Divorce is not merely a legal matter but has profound spiritual implications. The Bible portrays marriage as a reflection of the relationship between Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:31-32). As such, the dissolution of a marriage can have significant spiritual consequences, affecting not only the individuals involved but also their relationship with God.

Conclusion

The biblical perspective on divorce emphasizes the sanctity and permanence of marriage while acknowledging human frailty and the reality of sin. The Scriptures provide guidance for maintaining marital fidelity and offer a framework for understanding the conditions under which divorce may be considered permissible.
Topical Bible Verses
Malachi 2:16
For the LORD, the God of Israel, said that he hates putting away: for one covers violence with his garment, said the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that you deal not treacherously.
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Luke 16:18
Whoever puts away his wife, and marries another, commits adultery: and whoever marries her that is put away from her husband commits adultery.
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Matthew 5:32
But I say to you, That whoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causes her to commit adultery: and whoever shall marry her that is divorced commits adultery.
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Matthew 19:9
And I say to you, Whoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, commits adultery: and whoever marries her which is put away does commit adultery.
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1 Corinthians 7:11
But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
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Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
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Ephesians 5:22-33
Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
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The Tragic Break in the Plan.
... Mark 10:1, 32. Matthew 19:1."the Seventy, Luke 10:1-17."getting nearer
to Jerusalem, divorce question, Mark 10:2-12. Matthew ...
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On the Journey to Jerusalem - Departure from Ephraim by Way of ...
... Him, only now with the object of tempting Him.' Perhaps it may also have been in
the hope that, by getting Christ to commit Himself against divorce in Per??a ...
/.../the life and times of jesus the messiah/chapter xxii on the journey.htm

Whether the New Law Directed Man Sufficiently as Regards Interior ...
... Wherefore Our Lord forbade a man to divorce his wife (Mat.5:32); and to ... to our
solicitude; in other words, we must not be confident of getting the necessaries ...
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Thou Shalt not Covet Thy Neighbor's House. Thou Shalt not Covet ...
... as sin and forbidden to desire or in any way to aim at getting our neighbor's ... over
his wife to put her away publicly by giving her a bill of divorce, and to ...
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Chapter xiv.
... a writing might moderate the rash anger of him who was getting rid of ... potestatem
dat divortium ("by another marriage, power of which divorce gives."--Bengel). ...
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The People among whom we Labour.
... The sanction given by Muhammad to polygamy and extreme facility of divorce has borne ...
supposed to know his own people, tells us that polygamy is getting out of ...
/.../chapter xxviii the people among.htm

The Alleged Discrepancy in the Gospels in Regard to the Genealogy ...
... brothers, for the law did not prohibit a widow, whether such by divorce or by the ...
records of their own, either by remembering the names or by getting them in ...
/.../pamphilius/church history/chapter vii the alleged discrepancy in.htm

Prayer and Character and Conduct
... Primarily, its work is not to acquire members, nor amass numbers, nor aim at
money-getting, nor engage ... We cannot, by any process, divorce praying from conduct. ...
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The Great Change
... has been wrought upon him, he has a thorough hearty severance and divorce from those ...
O you worldly Christians, who are getting to be so fond of this world, I ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 42 1896/the great change.htm

The Beloved Pastor's Plea for Unity
... the doctrine of election, it is written in the Word of God as with an iron pen,
and there is no getting rid of it ... There is a divorce proclaimed between the two. ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 39 1893/the beloved pastors plea for.htm

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