Topical Encyclopedia
MarriageMarriage is a divinely instituted covenant between a man and a woman, designed for companionship, procreation, and mutual support. The foundation of marriage is established in the early chapters of Genesis, where God creates Eve as a suitable helper for Adam, declaring, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make for him a suitable helper" (
Genesis 2:18). The union of Adam and Eve is described as becoming "one flesh" (
Genesis 2:24), signifying the deep, intimate bond intended in marriage.
Throughout Scripture, marriage is upheld as a sacred institution. In the New Testament, Jesus reaffirms the sanctity of marriage, citing the Genesis account and emphasizing its permanence: "Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate" (
Matthew 19:6). The Apostle Paul further elaborates on the roles within marriage, instructing husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church and wives to respect their husbands (
Ephesians 5:22-33).
Marriage is also portrayed as a metaphor for the relationship between Christ and the Church. This profound mystery highlights the spiritual significance of the marital bond, as Paul writes, "This mystery is profound, but I am speaking about Christ and the church" (
Ephesians 5:32).
SinglenessSingleness, like marriage, is a state of life that is addressed in Scripture with dignity and purpose. The Apostle Paul, himself unmarried, speaks positively of singleness, noting its advantages for undivided devotion to the Lord. In
1 Corinthians 7, Paul writes, "I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that" (
1 Corinthians 7:7). He acknowledges singleness as a gift, allowing individuals to focus on serving God without the distractions of marital responsibilities.
Paul advises that singleness can be beneficial, especially in times of distress or persecution, as it allows for greater flexibility and dedication to ministry (
1 Corinthians 7:26-35). However, he also recognizes that marriage is a legitimate and honorable choice, stating, "But if they cannot control themselves, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion" (
1 Corinthians 7:9).
Both marriage and singleness are presented as valid and honorable states, each with its own set of challenges and opportunities for serving God. The Bible encourages individuals to consider their own calling and gifts when deciding between marriage and singleness, always prioritizing their relationship with the Lord and their ability to serve His purposes.