2 Samuel 18:12
The man replied, "Even if a thousand shekels of silver were weighed out into my hands, I would not raise my hand against the son of the king. For we heard the king command you and Abishai and Ittai, 'Protect the young man Absalom for my sake.'
The man replied,

An unnamed soldier answered Joab with loyalty to David’s publicly given command rather than submission to Joab’s private urging.

2Sa 24:21-24 “Why has my lord the king come to his servant?”…
1Ki 21:2-4 So Ahab said to Naboth, “Give me your vineyard…
Gen 23:12-16 Again Abraham bowed down before the people of the land…

“Even if a thousand shekels of silver were weighed out into my hands,

Such a payment was an immense reward. Silver was commonly weighed in commercial transactions, and no personal gain could justify disobedience to the king.

1Sa 12:3-5 Here I am. Bear witness against me before the LORD…
Exo 23:8 Do not accept a bribe, for a bribe blinds those who see…
Deu 16:19 Do not deny justice or show partiality…

I would not raise my hand against the son of the king.

Absalom remained David’s son despite his treason. The soldier recognized that David alone had given the command concerning Absalom’s treatment.

1Sa 24:6 So he said to his men, “The LORD forbid…
1Sa 26:9-11 But David said to Abishai, “Do not destroy him…
2Sa 1:14 So David asked him, “Why were you not afraid”…

For we heard the king command you and Abishai and Ittai,

David had charged his three commanders in the hearing of the troops (2 Samuel 18:5). The soldier’s words exposed Joab’s attempt to act against an order he had plainly received.

2Sa 15:19-22 Then the king said to Ittai the Gittite,…
2Sa 16:9-11 Then Abishai son of Zeruiah said to the king,…
2Sa 20:6-7 And David said to Abishai, “Now Sheba the son of Bichri…

‘Protect the young man Absalom for my sake.’

David’s plea revealed a father’s enduring love for a rebellious son. Though Absalom had sought his father’s throne and life, David desired mercy; yet Joab chose expediency over obedience, with consequences that brought profound grief to the king.

2Sa 12:16-18 David pleaded with God for the boy. He fasted…
2Sa 13:37-39 Now Absalom fled and went to Talmai son of Ammihud…
2Sa 14:33 So Joab went and told the king, and David summoned Absalom…

Persons / Places / Events
1. The Man (Unnamed Soldier)
A soldier in King David's army who refuses to harm Absalom despite the potential reward.

2. Absalom
The rebellious son of King David, who sought to usurp his father's throne.

3. King David
The reigning king of Israel, who commanded his men to deal gently with Absalom.

4. Joab
David's military commander, who ultimately disobeys the king's order and kills Absalom.

5. Abishai and Ittai
Military leaders under David, who were also given the command to protect Absalom.
Teaching Points
Obedience to Authority
The soldier's refusal to harm Absalom highlights the importance of obeying rightful authority, even when tempted by personal gain.

Value of Integrity
The soldier's integrity in upholding David's command, despite the potential reward, serves as a model for maintaining righteousness over material wealth.

Respect for Life
The account underscores the sanctity of life and the importance of mercy, even towards those who oppose us.

Consequences of Disobedience
Joab's eventual killing of Absalom, despite David's command, serves as a warning about the consequences of disregarding authority and God's will.

Faithfulness in Small Things
The soldier's faithfulness in a seemingly small matter reflects the biblical principle that faithfulness in small things leads to greater responsibilities.
Bible Study Questions
1. How does the soldier's response to Joab's offer reflect the biblical principle of obedience to authority?

2. In what ways does the soldier's decision demonstrate integrity, and how can we apply this in our daily lives?

3. How does the account of Absalom and David illustrate the importance of mercy and forgiveness in our relationships?

4. What are the potential consequences of disobeying God's commands, as seen in Joab's actions?

5. How can we be faithful in small matters, and why is this important in our walk with God? Consider connections to other scriptures that emphasize faithfulness.
Connections to Other Scriptures
1 Samuel 24
David spares King Saul's life, demonstrating a similar respect for God's anointed, as the soldier shows for David's command.

Exodus 20:12
The commandment to honor one's father and mother, reflecting the soldier's respect for David's wishes.

Proverbs 21:3
The importance of doing what is right and just, over material gain, as the soldier exemplifies.

Matthew 5:44
Jesus' teaching to love your enemies, which parallels David's desire to protect Absalom despite his rebellion.
Absalom: a Character StudyJ. O. Keen, D. D.2 Samuel 18:1-17
Bush WarfareSunday Companion2 Samuel 18:1-17
David and AbsalomR. E. Faulkner.2 Samuel 18:1-17
The Battle and its IssueH. E. Stone.2 Samuel 18:1-17
The Fatal FightC. Ness.2 Samuel 18:1-17
A Faithful SoldierB. Dale 2 Samuel 18:9-14
People
Abishai, Absalom, Ahimaaz, Cushi, David, Israelites, Ittai, Joab, Zadok, Zeruiah
Places
King's Valley, Mahanaim
Topics
Abishai, Abi'shai, Absalom, Ab'salom, Beware, Bits, Care, Charged, Commanded, Ears, Felt, Forth, Hands, Hearing, Ittai, It'tai, Joab, Jo'ab, King's, Lift, None, Observe, Orders, Pieces, Protect, Receive, Sake, Saying, Shekels, Silver, Silverlings, Though, Thousand, Touch, Touched, Weighed, Weighing, Weight, Wouldn't, Yea, Yet, Youth
Dictionary of Bible Themes
2 Samuel 18:12

     5260   coinage
     5318   fraud
     8650   hands, lifting up

2 Samuel 18:1-17

     5087   David, reign of

2 Samuel 18:6-17

     4448   forests

2 Samuel 18:9-14

     4528   trees

2 Samuel 18:11-12

     5615   weights

2 Samuel 18:12-13

     5061   sanctity of life

Library
The Wail of a Broken Heart
'Now Absalom in his lifetime had taken and reared up for himself a pillar, which is in the king's dale; for he said, I have no son to keep my name in remembrance; and he called the pillar after his own name: and it is called unto this day, Absalom's Place. 19. Then said Ahimaaz the son of Zadok, Let me now run, and bear the king tidings, how that the Lord hath avenged him of his enemies. 20. And Joab said unto him. Thou shalt not bear tidings this day, but thou shalt bear tidings another day; but
Alexander Maclaren—Expositions of Holy Scripture

The Church and the Young Man.
A Sermon Delivered on Sabbath Morning, November 4, 1866, In The First Presbyterian Church, Troy, At The Request of The Young Men's Christian Association. 2 Sam. xviii, 5. "And the king commanded Joab and Abishai and Ittai saying, deal gently for my sake with the young man, even with Absalom." There are few passages of Holy writ more beautiful or suggestive than this. Notwithstanding the astounding character of Absalom's rebellion; though the mind of the sovereign and father of his people is
Rev. Marvin R. Vincent.—Amusement: A Force in Christian Training

Samuel
Alike from the literary and the historical point of view, the book[1] of Samuel stands midway between the book of Judges and the book of Kings. As we have already seen, the Deuteronomic book of Judges in all probability ran into Samuel and ended in ch. xii.; while the story of David, begun in Samuel, embraces the first two chapters of the first book of Kings. The book of Samuel is not very happily named, as much of it is devoted to Saul and the greater part to David; yet it is not altogether inappropriate,
John Edgar McFadyen—Introduction to the Old Testament

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