Virginity Before Marriage
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Virginity before marriage is a concept deeply rooted in biblical teachings and traditions, emphasizing purity, holiness, and the sanctity of the marriage covenant. The Bible presents virginity as an ideal state for unmarried individuals, particularly women, and underscores its importance through various narratives, laws, and teachings.

Old Testament Context

In the Old Testament, virginity is often associated with purity and moral integrity. The Hebrew word "bethulah" is frequently used to denote a virgin, and the preservation of virginity is seen as a virtue. In Deuteronomy 22:13-21, the law addresses the issue of a bride's virginity, highlighting its significance in the context of marriage. If a man accuses his wife of not being a virgin at the time of marriage, her parents are to provide proof of her virginity. If the accusation is false, the man is punished, but if true, the woman faces severe consequences. This passage underscores the cultural and religious importance placed on virginity.

The account of Dinah in Genesis 34 also reflects the societal value of virginity. When Shechem, a Hivite prince, defiles Dinah, the daughter of Jacob, it leads to a violent retaliation by her brothers, Simeon and Levi. This narrative illustrates the protective attitude towards a woman's virginity and the honor associated with it.

New Testament Teachings

The New Testament continues to uphold the value of virginity, particularly in the teachings of the Apostle Paul. In 1 Corinthians 7, Paul discusses marriage and celibacy, suggesting that remaining unmarried and thus maintaining one's virginity can be a desirable state for those who are able to exercise self-control. He writes, "Now to the unmarried and the widows I say this: It is good for them to remain unmarried, as I am" (1 Corinthians 7:8). Paul emphasizes that virginity and celibacy allow individuals to focus on serving the Lord without distraction.

The Virgin Mary, the mother of Jesus, is a central figure in the New Testament who exemplifies the virtue of virginity. Her virginity is highlighted in the accounts of Jesus' birth, where it is stated that she conceived by the Holy Spirit while still a virgin (Matthew 1:18-25, Luke 1:26-38). Mary's virginity is seen as a sign of her purity and her special role in God's redemptive plan.

Moral and Spiritual Implications

Virginity before marriage is often associated with moral purity and spiritual dedication. In 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4, Paul exhorts believers to abstain from sexual immorality and to control their bodies in holiness and honor. The call to purity is not merely a physical expectation but a spiritual discipline that reflects one's commitment to God.

The concept of virginity is also linked to the idea of the Church as the Bride of Christ. In 2 Corinthians 11:2, Paul expresses his desire to present the Church as a pure virgin to Christ, symbolizing spiritual fidelity and devotion.

Cultural and Historical Perspectives

Throughout history, the emphasis on virginity before marriage has been influenced by cultural norms and religious teachings. In biblical times, a woman's virginity was often tied to family honor and social status. The preservation of virginity was seen as a reflection of a family's moral standing and adherence to God's commandments.

In contemporary discussions, the topic of virginity before marriage continues to be relevant, with varying interpretations and applications within different Christian communities. While some uphold traditional views, others engage in broader conversations about purity, chastity, and the role of grace and forgiveness in the Christian life.

Conclusion

The biblical perspective on virginity before marriage is multifaceted, encompassing legal, moral, and spiritual dimensions. It reflects a commitment to purity and holiness, serving as a testament to one's faithfulness to God's design for human relationships.
Topical Bible Verses
Exodus 22:16-17
And if a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife.
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Genesis 2:24
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall join to his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
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Matthew 5:28
But I say to you, That whoever looks on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart.
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1 Thessalonians 4:3
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that you should abstain from fornication:
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St. Ambrose Exhorts Parents to Train their Children to virginity.. ...
... Still setting virginity before marriage, he speaks of the beauty of their spouse,
and of the gifts wherewith He adorns them, and applies to these points ...
/.../ambrose/works and letters of st ambrose/chapter vii st ambrose exhorts.htm

These Discussions, Therefore, Concerning the Different Deserts of ...
... 2264] But we have arrived, in what relates to this matter on which we are speaking,
so far as to set continence before marriage, but holy virginity even before ...
/.../augustine/on the good of widowhood /section 19 these discussions therefore.htm

Yet He Added, "But Such Shall have Tribulation of the Flesh...
... Wherefore I admonish both men and women who follow after perpetual continence and
holy virginity, that they so set their own good before marriage, as that they ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/augustine/of holy virginity /section 16 yet he added.htm

"Honorable," Therefore, "Is Marriage in All, and the Bed Undefiled ...
... But as the repasts of the Just are better than the fasts of the sacrilegious, so
the marriage of the faithful is to be set before the virginity of the impious. ...
/.../augustine/on the good of marriage/section 8 honorable therefore is.htm

Marriage Existed Before Sin was Committed. How God's Blessing ...
... Chapter 40 [XXXV.]"Marriage Existed Before Sin Was ... but a benediction upon the fertility
of marriage. ... happens, would the chastity of virginity be corrupted to ...
/.../augustine/anti-pelagian writings/chapter 40 xxxv marriage existed before.htm

Article xxiii (xi): of the Marriage of Priests.
... For we have said that virginity without faith is not purity before God, and marriage,
on account of faith, is pure, according to Titus 1, 16: Unto the pure all ...
/.../the apology of the augsburg confession/part 28 article xxiii xi .htm

Concerning virginity.
... refer to the multiplying by the marriage connection ... But God, Who knoweth all things
before they have existence ... and see the glories [2677] of virginity: and this ...
/.../john/exposition of the orthodox faith/chapter xxiv concerning virginity.htm

The Doctrine of Paul Concerning virginity Explained.
... of the flesh, not making your marriage an occasion ... powerfully supporting the state
of virginity, and adding ... to those which he had spoken before, he exclaimed ...
/.../chapter xiii the doctrine of paul.htm

Virginity a Gift of God: the Purpose of Virginity not Rashly to be ...
... him marry;" properly here preferring marriage to "uncomeliness ... had chosen the state
of virginity, but afterwards ... boasting of their perseverance before men, out ...
/.../chapter xiv virginity a gift of.htm

How Queen Ethelthryth Always Preserved Her virginity, and Her Body ...
... She had before been given in marriage to another, to ... Though she lived with him twelve
years, yet she preserved the glory of perfect virginity, as I was ...
/.../bede/bedes ecclesiastical history of england/chap xix how queen ethelthryth.htm

Resources
Why is virginity so important in the Bible? | GotQuestions.org

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Virginity: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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