Finding Love
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Introduction:
The concept of finding love is deeply rooted in the biblical narrative, reflecting God's design for human relationships and His own nature as love. The Bible provides guidance on love in various forms, including romantic love, familial love, and the love among believers. This entry explores the biblical perspective on finding love, emphasizing the principles and examples found in Scripture.

Divine Love as the Foundation:
The Bible begins with the premise that God is love (1 John 4:8). This divine love is the foundation for all human expressions of love. God's love is unconditional, sacrificial, and eternal, as demonstrated in John 3:16: "For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that everyone who believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life." Understanding God's love is essential for finding and expressing true love in human relationships.

Romantic Love and Marriage:
The Bible celebrates romantic love within the context of marriage. Genesis 2:24 establishes the divine institution of marriage: "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." The Song of Solomon is a poetic exploration of romantic love, illustrating the beauty and passion of marital love. Ephesians 5:25-33 further instructs husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church, highlighting the sacrificial nature of true love.

Love Among Believers:
The New Testament emphasizes the importance of love among believers. Jesus commands His followers in John 13:34-35: "A new commandment I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you also must love one another. By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you love one another." This love is characterized by selflessness, humility, and service, as described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud..."

Parental and Familial Love:
The Bible also addresses the love within families. Ephesians 6:1-4 instructs children to obey their parents and parents to nurture their children in the Lord. Proverbs 22:6 advises, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." The family is seen as a primary context for learning and practicing love, reflecting God's love and care.

Principles for Finding Love:
1. Seek God First: Matthew 6:33 encourages believers to "seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness," trusting that all other needs, including love, will be provided.
2. Pray for Guidance: James 1:5 assures that God gives wisdom generously to those who ask. Prayer is essential in seeking God's will in relationships.
3. Pursue Righteousness: 2 Timothy 2:22 advises, "Flee from youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart."
4. Practice Patience and Kindness: As outlined in 1 Corinthians 13, love is patient and kind, qualities that are crucial in building and sustaining loving relationships.

Examples of Love in Scripture:
· Ruth and Boaz: The account of Ruth and Boaz in the Book of Ruth exemplifies loyalty, kindness, and God's providence in bringing two people together.
· Jacob and Rachel: Jacob's love for Rachel, as described in Genesis 29, demonstrates perseverance and commitment.
· David and Jonathan: The friendship between David and Jonathan in 1 Samuel 18-20 is a powerful example of selfless love and loyalty.

Conclusion:
The Bible provides a comprehensive framework for understanding and finding love, rooted in God's own nature and His design for human relationships. By aligning with biblical principles, believers can seek and cultivate love that reflects God's character and purposes.
Topical Bible Verses
Titus 2:4
That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
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1 Corinthians 13:1
Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
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Genesis 2:24
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall join to his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
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Library

The Finding
... The Finding. Heinrich Suso Deuteronomy 32:10. Now have I seen Thee and found Thee,.
For Thou hast found Thy sheep; I fled, but Thy love would follow". ...
/.../bevan/hymns of ter steegen suso and others/the finding.htm

Mother-Love.
... There must be two whose hearts are fully joined in love, each finding answering
and ever-satisfying love in the other; and so each love growing to full ...
//christianbookshelf.org/gordon/quiet talks with world winners/mother-love.htm

Of the Union of the Blessed with God in the vision of the ...
... Love not finding us equal, equalizes us, not finding us united, unites
us. Now the Father and the Son finding Themselves not only ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter xiii of the union.htm

For the Love of Christ.
... Ah! let the virtue of Thy blood My flinty heart be bending, Entrance finding; And
may Thy love, life's flood Through all my veins be sending. Oh! ...
/.../gerhardt/paul gerhardts spiritual songs/for the love of christ.htm

That God's Love is to be Mingled with Ilk Time and Deed nor Fails ...
... Yet I am compelled to say somewhat, although it be unable to be spoken, that hearers
or readers may study to follow it; finding that all love of the fairest ...
//christianbookshelf.org/rolle/the fire of love/chapter x that gods love.htm

Of the Great Sentiment of Love which we Receive by Holy Hope.
... I was seeking to love and knew not what to love, and therefore my intention not
finding its true love, my love remained ever in a true but ignorant intention. ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter xv of the great.htm

How we Forsake Divine Love for that of Creatures.
... [191]. For so, most dear Theotimus, self-love, finding our faith without attention
and drowsy, presents unto us vain yet apparent goods, seduces our senses, our ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter iii how we forsake.htm

How Charity Comprehends all the virtues.
... Thus heavenly love finding certain virtues in S. Paul, S. Ambrose, S. Denis, S.
Pachomius, shed upon them an agreeable brightness, reducing them all to its ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter viii how charity comprehends.htm

That the Glorious virgin Died by an Extremely Sweet and Tranquil ...
... the flowing of the waters, but, on the contrary, finding themselves on the plain,
sweetly glide and flow without effort;"so divine love, finding in human ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter xiv that the glorious.htm

Of Two Other Degrees of Greater Perfection, by which we May Love ...
... So that finding God in creatures, and creatures in God, they love God, not the
creatures; as pearl-fishers, though they find the pearls in oysters, consider ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter v of two other.htm

Resources
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Finding: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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