Deserted Wives
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In the biblical context, the plight of deserted wives is addressed with both compassion and a call for justice. The Scriptures provide guidance on the responsibilities of husbands and the protection of wives, emphasizing the sanctity of marriage and the importance of faithfulness.

Biblical Context and Teachings

The Bible underscores the covenantal nature of marriage, where both husband and wife are called to mutual love and fidelity. In Malachi 2:14-16, the prophet rebukes the men of Israel for their unfaithfulness to their wives, highlighting God's disdain for divorce and treachery: "Yet you ask, 'For what reason?' Because the LORD has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant. Has not the LORD made them one, having a portion of the Spirit? And why one? Because He seeks godly offspring. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth. 'For I hate divorce,' says the LORD, the God of Israel."

The New Testament reiterates the call for marital fidelity. In Ephesians 5:25, husbands are instructed to love their wives "just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her." This sacrificial love is the standard for husbands, emphasizing the seriousness of their commitment.

Legal and Social Implications

In biblical times, a deserted wife faced significant social and economic challenges. The Mosaic Law provided certain protections for women, ensuring they were not left destitute. Exodus 21:10-11 outlines the obligations of a husband to provide for his wife, stating, "If he takes another wife, he must not reduce the food, clothing, or marital rights of his first wife. If he does not provide her with these three things, she is free to go without payment of money."

The issue of desertion is also addressed in the context of the early church. In 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Paul advises, "To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife." This passage underscores the importance of reconciliation and the preservation of the marital bond.

Pastoral Care and Community Support

The church is called to support deserted wives, offering pastoral care and community assistance. James 1:27 highlights the importance of caring for those in distress: "Pure and undefiled religion before our God and Father is this: to care for orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world." While this verse specifically mentions widows, the principle of caring for vulnerable individuals extends to deserted wives.

The community of believers is encouraged to provide practical support, emotional encouragement, and spiritual guidance to those who have been deserted. Galatians 6:2 exhorts Christians to "carry one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."

Conclusion

The biblical narrative consistently upholds the dignity and protection of wives, calling for faithfulness and justice within the marriage covenant. Deserted wives, in particular, are to be supported by the community of faith, reflecting God's compassion and righteousness.
Topical Bible Verses
Matthew 19:9
And I say to you, Whoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, commits adultery: and whoever marries her which is put away does commit adultery.
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Matthew 5:32
But I say to you, That whoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causes her to commit adultery: and whoever shall marry her that is divorced commits adultery.
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Luke 16:18
Whoever puts away his wife, and marries another, commits adultery: and whoever marries her that is put away from her husband commits adultery.
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Jeremiah 3:1-25
They say, If a man put away his wife, and she go from him, and become another man's, shall he return to her again? shall not that land be greatly polluted? but you have played the harlot with many lovers; yet return again to me, said the LORD.
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Matthew 5:31
It has been said, Whoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorce:
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Matthew 19:3-9
The Pharisees also came to him, tempting him, and saying to him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?
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Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
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Concerning the Ten Plagues which came Upon the Egyptians.
... of his miseries, he still contested with God, and willfully deserted the cause of
virtue; so he bid Moses take the Hebrews away, with their wives and children ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 14 concerning the ten.htm

Whether we are to Believe that Angels, who are of a Spiritual ...
... the daughters of men that they were fair, and they took them wives of all ... are called
flesh, as deserters of the Spirit, and by their desertion deserted [by Him ...
//christianbookshelf.org/augustine/city of god/chapter 23 whether we are to.htm

That the Church which Before had Been Barren Should have More ...
... hand; and thy seed shall possess the nations, and shall inhabit the deserted cities. ...
Thus also Jacob received two wives: the elder Leah, with weak eyes, a type ...
/.../three books of testimonies against the jews/20 that the church which.htm

How He Fled to a Monastery when his Wife Would not Consent.
... do without the solace of her husband, and further that supposing she was deserted
by him ... But he also added and spoke as follows: If Moses suffered wives to be ...
/.../cassian/the conferences of john cassian/chapter ix how he fled.htm

How the King of Babylon Took Jerusalem and Burnt the Temple and ...
... and every one resolved to save himself; so the enemy took Zedekiah alive, when he
was deserted by all but a few, with his children and his wives, and brought ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 8 how the king.htm

How Izates was Betrayed by his Own Subjects, and Fought against by ...
... those Handees, as if they had a panic terror upon them, all deserted Izates, as ... him
to be his principal assistant, he intrusted his children and his wives to a ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 4 how izates was.htm

How, after the Death of Joshua their Commander, the Israelites ...
... and eighteen thousand of the Israelites were slain, and the rest deserted their
camp ... sent slew the men of war, with their children and wives, excepting four ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 2 how after the.htm

Now Saul Upon God's not Answering Him Concerning the Fight with ...
... said they should be contented to have safely recovered their wives; yet did ... fortified
and fenced; and the Philistines, finding those cities deserted, came and ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 14 now saul upon.htm

How Nebuzaradan Set Gedaliah Over the Jews that were Left in Judea ...
... of the Jews into captivity, left the poor, and those that had deserted, in the ... but
he took captive the people that were in Mispah, with their wives and children ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 9 how nebuzaradan set.htm

Antigonus Besieges those that were in Masada, whom Herod Frees ...
... those a few horsemen, and came to Jericho; and when he came, he found the city deserted,
but that there were five hundred men, with their wives and children ...
/.../chapter 15 antigonus besieges those.htm

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