Proverbs 23:6 Study Bible: Do not eat the food of him who has a stingy eye, and do not crave his delicacies:

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Do not eat the bread of a stingy man, and do not crave his delicacies;

Do not eat
The phrase "do not eat" is a direct command, urging the reader to exercise discernment and self-control. In the Hebrew context, eating is often symbolic of fellowship and acceptance. To "eat" with someone implies a level of intimacy and agreement. This command suggests a need for caution in forming close associations, especially with those whose character is questionable.

the bread
Bread, in biblical times, was a staple of daily life and a symbol of sustenance and provision. It represents the basic necessities provided by God. In this context, "the bread" of a stingy man is not just physical food but also what he offers in terms of relationship and influence. Accepting this bread could imply accepting his values and worldview.

of a stingy man
The Hebrew word for "stingy" can also be translated as "evil eye," which in ancient Near Eastern culture, referred to someone who is greedy or envious. A stingy man is one who hoards resources and is unwilling to share generously. This phrase warns against associating with individuals whose hearts are not aligned with God's principles of generosity and love.

and do not crave
To "crave" is to have an intense desire or longing. This phrase warns against allowing one's desires to be captivated by what is ultimately unworthy or harmful. It speaks to the importance of guarding one's heart and desires, aligning them with God's will rather than the fleeting pleasures offered by the world.

his delicacies
Delicacies refer to luxurious or sumptuous foods, often associated with wealth and indulgence. In a broader sense, they symbolize the allure of materialism and the temptation to seek satisfaction in earthly pleasures. The warning here is to not be enticed by the temporary and deceptive allure of wealth and luxury, which can lead one away from a life of righteousness and contentment in God.

Persons / Places / Events

1. Stingy Man
This refers to a person who is miserly or selfish, unwilling to share their resources freely. The Hebrew word used here is "ra‘" which can imply someone with an evil or begrudging eye, indicating a deeper issue of the heart.

2. Bread and Delicacies
These represent the material offerings or hospitality extended by the stingy man. In the cultural context, sharing a meal was a sign of fellowship and trust, making the warning against accepting such hospitality significant.

Teaching Points

Discernment in Relationships
Be cautious about forming relationships based on material gain. Evaluate the sincerity of others' intentions, especially when they offer something that seems too good to be true.

Generosity as a Virtue
Contrast the stingy man's behavior with the biblical call to generosity. Christians are encouraged to give freely and joyfully, reflecting God's generosity towards us.

Guarding the Heart
The stingy man's actions reveal a heart issue. Believers should regularly examine their own hearts to ensure they are not harboring selfishness or greed.

True Fellowship
Genuine fellowship is built on mutual respect and love, not on what one can gain from another. Seek relationships that are grounded in Christ-like love and service.

Bible Study Questions

1. How can we identify a "stingy man" in our own lives, and what steps can we take to protect ourselves from their influence?

2. In what ways does the warning in Proverbs 23:6 challenge our own attitudes towards wealth and generosity?

3. How does the concept of hospitality in biblical times enhance our understanding of this proverb?

4. What are some practical ways we can cultivate a spirit of generosity in our daily lives?

5. How can we apply the lessons from Proverbs 23:6 to our interactions within the church community, ensuring that our fellowship is sincere and loving?

Connections to Other Scriptures

Proverbs 23:7
This verse continues the thought by explaining that the stingy man is not sincere in his hospitality, as his heart is not with you. This highlights the importance of discerning the true intentions behind someone's actions.

Proverbs 28:22
This verse warns about the dangers of being hasty to gain wealth, which can lead to poverty. It connects to the idea of the stingy man, who may be driven by a desire to hoard wealth rather than share it.

1 Timothy 6:10
This passage discusses the love of money as a root of all kinds of evil, which can be related to the stingy man's attitude towards his possessions.

Sermons

Hints and Warnings on Conduct	E. Johnson	Proverbs 23:1-8
The Graces of Giving, Receiving, and Refusing	W. Clarkson	Proverbs 23:6-8

People

Solomon

Places

Jerusalem

Topics

Bread, Crave, Dainties, Dainty, Delicacies, Delicate, Desire, Eat, Evil, Eye, Meat, Meats, Selfish, Stingy

Dictionary of Bible Themes

Proverbs 23:6

5907 miserliness

Proverbs 23:6-7

4438 eating

Proverbs 23:6-8

     5602   vomit
     5856   extravagance
     5967   thrift

Library

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Alexander Maclaren—Expositions of Holy Scripture

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Three Important Precepts
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