Background:
Absalom, the third son of King David, is a prominent figure in the narrative of 2 Samuel. Known for his striking appearance and charisma, Absalom's life is marked by familial conflict and personal ambition. His plot for revenge is rooted in the tragic events surrounding his sister Tamar and his half-brother Amnon.

The Incident with Tamar:
The catalyst for Absalom's plot is the violation of his sister Tamar by their half-brother Amnon. In 2 Samuel 13:1-22, Amnon, driven by lust, deceives and rapes Tamar. Despite her pleas for justice, King David, their father, is angered but takes no action against Amnon. This inaction sets the stage for Absalom's simmering resentment and desire for vengeance.

Absalom's Hatred and Plot:
Absalom harbors a deep hatred for Amnon following the incident. "And Absalom spoke to Amnon neither good nor bad, for Absalom hated Amnon because he had violated his sister Tamar" (2 Samuel 13:22). For two years, Absalom conceals his intentions, waiting for the opportune moment to exact revenge.

The Murder of Amnon:
Absalom's plot comes to fruition during a sheep-shearing event at Baal Hazor. He invites all the king's sons, including Amnon, under the guise of a festive gathering. Absalom instructs his servants, "When Amnon is high in spirits from wine and I say to you, ‘Strike Amnon down,’ then kill him. Do not be afraid. Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous!" (2 Samuel 13:28). The servants obey, and Amnon is killed, fulfilling Absalom's long-held desire for retribution.

Aftermath and Exile:
Following the murder, Absalom flees to Geshur, where he remains in exile for three years. King David mourns for Amnon but longs for Absalom's return. Eventually, through the intercession of Joab, David's commander, Absalom is allowed to return to Jerusalem, though he is not immediately reconciled with his father (2 Samuel 13:37-39; 14:1-24).

Significance:
Absalom's plot for revenge highlights themes of justice, familial loyalty, and the consequences of unchecked sin. The narrative underscores the complexities of David's family dynamics and foreshadows Absalom's later rebellion against his father, which further destabilizes David's reign. The account serves as a poignant reminder of the destructive power of vengeance and the importance of righteous leadership.