Ecclesiastes 7:3
Sorrow is better than laughter, for a sad countenance is good for the heart.
Sorrow
The Hebrew word for "sorrow" is "כַּעַס" (ka'as), which can also be translated as "grief" or "vexation." In the context of Ecclesiastes, sorrow is not merely an emotional state but a profound experience that leads to introspection and growth. The Preacher, traditionally understood as Solomon, suggests that sorrow has a refining quality. In a conservative Christian perspective, sorrow is seen as a tool used by God to draw individuals closer to Him, fostering a deeper reliance on His strength and wisdom. It is through sorrow that believers often find themselves more attuned to the spiritual realities of life, recognizing their own limitations and the need for divine intervention.

is better than
This phrase challenges the conventional wisdom that equates happiness with goodness. The Hebrew word "טוֹב" (tov) means "better" or "good," indicating a qualitative comparison. In the biblical context, "better" often refers to what is more beneficial for spiritual growth and maturity. The Preacher's assertion that sorrow is better than laughter is a call to value experiences that lead to spiritual depth over those that provide temporary pleasure. From a conservative Christian viewpoint, this aligns with the teachings of Jesus, who emphasized the blessedness of those who mourn (Matthew 5:4), as they are comforted by God.

laughter
The Hebrew word "שְׂחוֹק" (sechok) refers to mirth or amusement. While laughter is a natural and often positive human response, the Preacher warns against a life focused solely on pleasure and entertainment. In the historical context of Ecclesiastes, laughter might represent the fleeting joys of life that distract from eternal truths. Conservative Christianity often views laughter as a gift from God but cautions against allowing it to overshadow the more serious aspects of faith and life. True joy, according to Christian teaching, is found in a relationship with God, which transcends mere laughter.

for a sad countenance
The phrase "sad countenance" translates from the Hebrew "בְּרוֹעַ פָּנִים" (bero'a panim), literally meaning "evil face" or "sorrowful appearance." This expression suggests an outward manifestation of inner grief. In biblical times, a person's countenance was often seen as a reflection of their heart's condition. The Preacher implies that a sad countenance can lead to a more profound understanding of oneself and one's relationship with God. In a conservative Christian context, this aligns with the belief that God uses trials and tribulations to mold and shape His followers, encouraging them to seek His presence and comfort.

is good for the heart
The Hebrew word "לֵב" (lev) for "heart" encompasses the mind, will, and emotions. The heart is the center of one's being, where decisions are made and character is formed. The Preacher's assertion that a sad countenance is good for the heart suggests that sorrow can lead to a healthier spiritual life. In conservative Christianity, the heart is seen as the seat of faith and devotion. Trials that bring sorrow are often viewed as opportunities for God to purify and strengthen the believer's heart, drawing them closer to His will and purpose. This perspective encourages believers to embrace sorrow as a means of spiritual growth and transformation, trusting in God's ultimate plan for their lives.

Persons / Places / Events
1. Solomon
- Traditionally considered the author of Ecclesiastes, Solomon was the king of Israel known for his wisdom, wealth, and writings. Ecclesiastes is part of the wisdom literature attributed to him.

2. Jerusalem
- The central place of worship and the capital of Israel during Solomon's reign. It serves as the backdrop for much of Solomon's life and teachings.

3. The Assembly (Qoheleth)
- The term "Ecclesiastes" is derived from the Greek translation of the Hebrew word "Qoheleth," meaning "the assembler" or "teacher," referring to the speaker in the book.
Teaching Points
The Value of Sorrow
Sorrow can lead to introspection and personal growth. It encourages us to reflect on our lives and align more closely with God's will.

Emotional Depth and Spiritual Growth
Experiencing a range of emotions, including sorrow, can deepen our spiritual journey and reliance on God. It reminds us of our need for His comfort and guidance.

Contrast with Worldly Views
The world often prioritizes happiness and laughter, but Scripture teaches that sorrow has its place and purpose in developing a mature faith.

Heart Transformation
A "sad countenance" can lead to a softened heart, open to transformation and the work of the Holy Spirit.

Eternal Perspective
Sorrow can shift our focus from temporary pleasures to eternal truths, helping us prioritize what truly matters in life.
Bible Study Questions
1. How does understanding the original Hebrew context of "sorrow" and "laughter" in Ecclesiastes 7:3 enhance our interpretation of this verse?

2. In what ways can sorrow lead to a deeper relationship with God, as seen in other parts of Scripture?

3. How can we balance the biblical teaching on the value of sorrow with the joy that is also a fruit of the Spirit?

4. Reflect on a time when sorrow led to personal or spiritual growth in your life. How did this experience align with the teachings of Ecclesiastes 7:3?

5. How can we encourage others who are experiencing sorrow to see it as an opportunity for heart transformation and spiritual growth?
Connections to Other Scriptures
Proverbs 14:13
- This verse highlights the complexity of emotions, where even in laughter, the heart may ache, connecting to the idea that sorrow can have a deeper, beneficial impact on the heart.

2 Corinthians 7:10
- Paul speaks about godly sorrow leading to repentance and salvation, which aligns with the concept that sorrow can produce positive spiritual outcomes.

James 1:2-4
- James encourages believers to consider trials as joy because they produce perseverance, similar to how Ecclesiastes suggests that sorrow can be beneficial.
Sorrow Better than LaughterJ. W. Alexander, D. D.Ecclesiastes 7:3
The Service of SorrowHomilistEcclesiastes 7:3
A Divine ParadoxD. Thomas Ecclesiastes 7:2-4
On the Benefits to be Derived from the House of MourningH. Blair, D. D.Ecclesiastes 7:2-4
On the Dangers of PleasureS. S. Smith, D. D.Ecclesiastes 7:2-4
The House of MourningJohn Morgan.Ecclesiastes 7:2-4
Compensations of MiseryJ. Willcock Ecclesiastes 7:2-6
The Evil, the Unprofitable, and the Blessed FlyingW. Clarkson Ecclesiastes 7:2-6
People
Solomon
Places
Jerusalem
Topics
Becometh, Better, Countenance, Face, Gets, Glad, Gladdened, Happy, Heart, Joy, Laughter, Mind, Sad, Sadness, Sorrow, Vexation
Dictionary of Bible Themes
Ecclesiastes 7:3

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Library
Finis Coronat Opus
'Better is the end of a thing than the beginning.'--ECCLES. vii. 8. This Book of Ecclesiastes is the record of a quest after the chief good. The Preacher tries one thing after another, and tells his experiences. Amongst these are many blunders. It is the final lesson which he would have us learn, not the errors through which he reached it. 'The conclusion of the whole matter' is what he would commend to us, and to it he cleaves his way through a number of bitter exaggerations and of partial truths
Alexander Maclaren—Expositions of Holy Scripture

A Preservative against Unsettled Notions, and Want of Principles, in Regard to Righteousness and Christian Perfection
Ecclesiastes 7:16 -- "Be not righteous over much; neither make thyself over wise: why shouldest thou destroy thyself?" To all the Members of Christ's Holy Church. Dear Fellow Christians, The great, and indeed the only motive which prompted me to publish this sermon, was the desire of providing for your security from error, at a time when the deviators from, and false pretenders to truth, are so numerous, that the most discerning find it a matter of the greatest difficulty to avoid being led astray
George Whitefield—Selected Sermons of George Whitefield

What the Scriptures Principally Teach: the Ruin and Recovery of Man. Faith and Love Towards Christ.
2 Tim. i. 13.--"Hold fast the form of sound words, which thou hast heard of me, in faith and love which is in Christ Jesus." Here is the sum of religion. Here you have a compend of the doctrine of the Scriptures. All divine truths may be reduced to these two heads,--faith and love; what we ought to believe, and what we ought to do. This is all the Scriptures teach, and this is all we have to learn. What have we to know, but what God hath revealed of himself to us? And what have we to do, but what
Hugh Binning—The Works of the Rev. Hugh Binning

Eusebius' Accession to the Bishopric of Cæsarea.
Not long after the close of the persecution, Eusebius became bishop of Cæsarea in Palestine, his own home, and held the position until his death. The exact date of his accession cannot be ascertained, indeed we cannot say that it did not take place even before the close of the persecution, but that is hardly probable; in fact, we know of no historian who places it earlier than 313. His immediate predecessor in the episcopate was Agapius, whom he mentions in terms of praise in H. E. VII. 32.
Eusebius Pamphilius—Church History

Sources and Literature
Acacius, the pupil and successor of Eusebius in the bishopric of Cæsarea, wrote a life of the latter (Socr. H. E. II. 4) which is unfortunately lost. He was a man of ability (Sozomen H. E. III. 2, IV. 23) and had exceptional opportunities for producing a full and accurate account of Eusebius' life; the disappearance of his work is therefore deeply to be regretted. Numerous notices of Eusebius are found in the works of Socrates, Sozomen, Theodoret, Athanasius, Jerome, and other writers of his
Eusebius Pamphilius—Church History

The Outbreak at Benares.
At no place was the shock felt more severely than at Benares, where I was residing with my family. In no place was the danger greater. We were living in the suburbs of the most superstitious and fanatical city in the land. Again and again during the eighty years of our rule there had been riots in the city, professedly to avenge religious wrongs--riots so formidable, that they were quelled by military force. A very few years previous to 1857 the city was thrown into violent commotion, in consequence
James Kennedy—Life and Work in Benares and Kumaon, 1839-1877

Of the First Covenant Made with Man
Gen. ii. 17.--"But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, thou shall not eat of it, for in the day that thou eatest thereof, thou shalt surely die."--Gen. i. 26.--"And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. And let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth." The state wherein man was created at first, you heard was exceeding good,--all
Hugh Binning—The Works of the Rev. Hugh Binning

Covenanting Adapted to the Moral Constitution of Man.
The law of God originates in his nature, but the attributes of his creatures are due to his sovereignty. The former is, accordingly, to be viewed as necessarily obligatory on the moral subjects of his government, and the latter--which are all consistent with the holiness of the Divine nature, are to be considered as called into exercise according to his appointment. Hence, also, the law of God is independent of his creatures, though made known on their account; but the operation of their attributes
John Cunningham—The Ordinance of Covenanting

Adam's Sin
Q-15: WHAT WAS THE SIN WHEREBY OUR FIRST PARENTS FELL FROM THE ESTATE WHEREIN THEY WERE CREATED? A: That sin was eating the forbidden fruit. 'She took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also to her husband.' Gen 3:3. Here is implied, 1. That our first parents fell from their estate of innocence. 2. The sin by which they fell, was eating the forbidden fruit. I. Our first parents fell from their glorious state of innocence. God made man upright, but they have sought out many inventions.' Eccl
Thomas Watson—A Body of Divinity

Letter xxviii (Circa A. D. 1130) to the Abbots Assembled at Soissons
To the Abbots Assembled at Soissons [45] Bernard urges the abbots zealously to perform the duty for which they had met. He recommends to them a great desire of spiritual progress, and begs them not to be delayed in their work if lukewarm and lax persons should perhaps murmur. To the Reverend Abbots met in the name of the Lord in Chapter at Soissons, brother Bernard, Abbot of Clairvaux, the servant of their Holiness, health and prayer that they may see, establish, and observe the things which are
Saint Bernard of Clairvaux—Some Letters of Saint Bernard, Abbot of Clairvaux

Sin Charged Upon the Surety
All we like sheep have gone astray: we have turned every one to his own way, and the LORD hath laid upon Him the iniquity of us all. C omparisons, in the Scripture, are frequently to be understood with great limitation: perhaps, out of many circumstances, only one is justly applicable to the case. Thus, when our Lord says, Behold, I come as a thief (Revelation 16:15) , --common sense will fix the resemblance to a single point, that He will come suddenly, and unexpectedly. So when wandering sinners
John Newton—Messiah Vol. 1

Columban.
THE wild districts of Ireland were occupied with convents, after the example of Patrick, and cultivated by the hard labour of the monks. The Irish convents were distinguished by their strict Christian discipline, their diligence and their zeal in the study of the Scriptures, and of science in general, as far as they had the means of acquiring it. Irish monks brought learning from Britain and Gaul, they treasured up this learning and elaborated it in the solitude of the convent, and they are said
Augustus Neander—Light in the Dark Places

Sanctification.
VI. Objections answered. I will consider those passages of scripture which are by some supposed to contradict the doctrine we have been considering. 1 Kings viii. 46: "If they sin against thee, (for there is no man that sinneth not,) and thou be angry with them, and deliver them to the enemy, so that they carry them away captives unto the land of the enemy, far or near," etc. On this passage, I remark:-- 1. That this sentiment in nearly the same language, is repeated in 2 Chron. vi. 26, and in Eccl.
Charles Grandison Finney—Systematic Theology

How the Impatient and the Patient are to be Admonished.
(Admonition 10.) Differently to be admonished are the impatient and the patient. For the impatient are to be told that, while they neglect to bridle their spirit, they are hurried through many steep places of iniquity which they seek not after, inasmuch as fury drives the mind whither desire draws it not, and, when perturbed, it does, not knowing, what it afterwards grieves for when it knows. The impatient are also to be told that, when carried headlong by the impulse of emotion, they act in some
Leo the Great—Writings of Leo the Great

How to Make Use of Christ for Taking the Guilt of Our Daily Out-Breakings Away.
The next part of our sanctification is in reference to our daily failings and transgressions, committed partly through the violence of temptations, as we see in David and Peter, and other eminent men of God; partly through daily infirmities, because of our weakness and imperfections; for, "in many things we offend all," James iii. 2; and, "if we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us," 1 John i. 8; "a righteous man falleth seven times," Prov. xxiv. 16; "there is not
John Brown (of Wamphray)—Christ The Way, The Truth, and The Life

The Christian Man
Scripture references: Genesis 1:26-28; 2:7; 9:6; Job 33:4; Psalm 100:3; 8:4-9; Ecclesiastes 7:29; Acts 17:26-28; 1 Corinthians 11:7; Ephesians 4:24; Colossians 3:10; 1 Corinthians 15:45; Hebrews 2:6,7; Ephesians 6:10-18; 1 Corinthians 2:9. WHAT IS MAN? What Shall We Think of Man?--Who is he? What is his place on the earth and in the universe? What is his destiny? He is of necessity an object of thought. He is the subject of natural laws, instincts and passions. How far is he free; how far bound?
Henry T. Sell—Studies in the Life of the Christian

The Work of Jesus Christ as an Advocate,
CLEARLY EXPLAINED, AND LARGELY IMPROVED, FOR THE BENEFIT OF ALL BELIEVERS. 1 John 2:1--"And if any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous." By JOHN BUNYAN, Author of "The Pilgrim's Progress." London: Printed for Dorman Newman, at the King's Arms, in the Poultry, 1689. ADVERTISEMENT BY THE EDITOR. This is one of the most interesting of Bunyan's treatises, to edit which required the Bible at my right hand, and a law dictionary on my left. It was very frequently republished;
John Bunyan—The Works of John Bunyan Volumes 1-3

An Essay on the Mosaic Account of the Creation and Fall of Man
THERE are not a few difficulties in the account, which Moses has given of the creation of the world, and of the formation, and temptation, and fall of our first parents. Some by the six days of the creation have understood as many years. Whilst others have thought the creation of the world instantaneous: and that the number of days mentioned by Moses is only intended to assist our conception, who are best able to think of things in order of succession. No one part of this account is fuller of difficulties,
Nathaniel Lardner—An Essay on the Mosaic Account of the Creation and Fall of Man

A Believer's Privilege at Death
'For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain.' Phil 1:1I. Hope is a Christian's anchor, which he casts within the veil. Rejoicing in hope.' Rom 12:12. A Christian's hope is not in this life, but he hash hope in his death.' Prov 14:42. The best of a saint's comfort begins when his life ends; but the wicked have all their heaven here. Woe unto you that are rich! for ye have received your consolation.' Luke 6:64. You may make your acquittance, and write Received in full payment.' Son, remember that
Thomas Watson—A Body of Divinity

Fourth Sunday after Epiphany
Text: Romans 13, 8-10. 8 Owe no man anything, save to love one another: for he that loveth his neighbor hath fulfilled the law. 9 For this, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not kill, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not covet, and if there be any other commandment, it is summed up in this word, namely, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. 10 Love worketh no ill to his neighbor; love therefore is the fulfilment of the law. CHRISTIAN LOVE AND THE COMMAND TO LOVE. 1. This, like the two
Martin Luther—Epistle Sermons, Vol. II

"And we all do Fade as a Leaf, and Our Iniquities, Like the Wind, have Taken us Away. "
Isaiah lxiv. 6.--"And we all do fade as a leaf, and our iniquities, like the wind, have taken us away." Here they join the punishment with the deserving cause, their uncleanness and their iniquities, and so take it upon them, and subscribe to the righteousness of God's dealing. We would say this much in general--First, Nobody needeth to quarrel God for his dealing. He will always be justified when he is judged. If the Lord deal more sharply with you than with others, you may judge there is a difference
Hugh Binning—The Works of the Rev. Hugh Binning

"Now the God of Hope Fill You with all Joy and Peace in Believing," &C.
Rom. xv. 13.--"Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing," &c. It is usual for the Lord in his word to turn his precepts unto promises, which shows us, that the commandments of God do not so much import an ability in us, or suppose strength to fulfil them, as declare that obligation which lies upon us, and his purpose and intention to accomplish in some, what he requires of all: and therefore we should accordingly convert all his precepts unto prayers, seeing he hath made
Hugh Binning—The Works of the Rev. Hugh Binning

"The Carnal Mind is Enmity against God for it is not Subject to the Law of God, Neither Indeed Can Be. So Then they that Are
Rom. viii. s 7, 8.--"The carnal mind is enmity against God for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be. So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God." It is not the least of man's evils, that he knows not how evil he is, therefore the Searcher of the heart of man gives the most perfect account of it, Jer. xvii. 12. "The heart is deceitful above all things," as well as "desperately wicked," two things superlative and excessive in it, bordering upon an infiniteness, such
Hugh Binning—The Works of the Rev. Hugh Binning

The Necessity of Actual Grace
In treating of the necessity of actual grace we must avoid two extremes. The first is that mere nature is absolutely incapable of doing any thing good. This error was held by the early Protestants and the followers of Baius and Jansenius. The second is that nature is able to perform supernatural acts by its own power. This was taught by the Pelagians and Semipelagians. Between these two extremes Catholic theology keeps the golden mean. It defends the capacity of human nature against Protestants and
Joseph Pohle—Grace, Actual and Habitual

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