Whoever conceals an offense promotes love, but he who brings it up separates friends. Whoever covers an offenseThe phrase "covers an offense" is rooted in the Hebrew word "kāsâ," which means to conceal or hide. In the context of ancient Israel, covering an offense was not about ignoring sin or wrongdoing but rather about choosing forgiveness and discretion over public exposure. This aligns with the broader biblical principle of love and forgiveness, as seen in 1 Peter 4:8, which states, "Above all, love one another deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins." The act of covering an offense is a deliberate choice to protect relationships and foster reconciliation, reflecting God's own forgiveness towards humanity. promotes love
The Hebrew word for "promotes" is "baqash," which means to seek or pursue. In this context, it implies an active effort to cultivate love. Love, or "ahavah" in Hebrew, is a central theme in the Bible, representing not just an emotion but a commitment to the well-being of others. By covering offenses, one actively seeks to nurture and sustain love, which is foundational to Christian living. This pursuit of love is a reflection of God's nature, as described in 1 John 4:8, "Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love." but he who repeats a matter
The phrase "repeats a matter" comes from the Hebrew "shānâ," meaning to do again or to repeat. In the context of relationships, repeating a matter refers to the act of gossiping or bringing up past wrongs, which can lead to discord and division. The Bible consistently warns against gossip and slander, as seen in James 3:5-6, which describes the tongue as a small part of the body that can cause great harm. Repeating a matter undermines trust and can destroy the fabric of relationships, contrary to the call to live in peace and unity. separates close friends
The Hebrew word for "separates" is "pārad," which means to divide or scatter. This word paints a vivid picture of the destructive power of unresolved conflict and repeated offenses. "Close friends," or "allup" in Hebrew, refers to intimate companions or confidants. The Bible places high value on friendship, as seen in Proverbs 18:24, "A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother." The separation of close friends is a tragic outcome that highlights the importance of forgiveness and discretion in maintaining strong, healthy relationships. Persons / Places / Events 1. SolomonTraditionally attributed as the author of Proverbs, Solomon was the son of King David and known for his wisdom. 2. Ancient IsraelThe cultural and historical context in which Proverbs was written, emphasizing community, relationships, and the law. 3. The Wise and the FoolishThroughout Proverbs, these archetypes represent those who follow God's wisdom versus those who reject it. Teaching Points The Power of ForgivenessForgiveness is a powerful tool that can mend relationships and promote love. By choosing to cover an offense, we reflect God's grace and mercy. The Dangers of GossipRepeating a matter can lead to division and strife. As Christians, we are called to be peacemakers, not sowers of discord. Promoting UnityIn a community, whether it be a family, church, or workplace, unity is essential. Covering offenses helps maintain harmony and strengthens bonds. Reflecting Christ's LoveBy forgiving and covering offenses, we model the love of Christ, who forgave us and calls us to do the same for others. Guarding Our WordsWe must be mindful of our speech, ensuring that our words build up rather than tear down relationships. Bible Study Questions 1. How does the concept of "covering an offense" in Proverbs 17:9 relate to the teachings of Jesus on forgiveness? 2. In what ways can gossip or repeating a matter harm relationships within a church community? 3. Reflect on a time when you chose to forgive and cover an offense. How did it impact your relationship with the other person? 4. How can we practically apply the principle of promoting love in our daily interactions with others? 5. What steps can we take to ensure our words and actions align with the teachings of Proverbs 17:9 and other related scriptures? Connections to Other Scriptures Matthew 18:15-17This passage discusses the process of addressing offenses within the church, emphasizing reconciliation and forgiveness. 1 Peter 4:8This verse highlights the importance of love covering a multitude of sins, echoing the theme of promoting love by forgiving offenses. James 5:19-20These verses speak to the importance of turning a sinner from their ways, which can restore relationships and save souls. People SolomonPlaces JerusalemTopics Alienates, Best, Bringeth, Chief, Close, Conceals, Covered, Covereth, Covering, Covers, Division, Estrangeth, Familiar, Forgives, Friend, Friends, Harpeth, Intimate, Keeps, Love, Makes, Matter, Offense, Promotes, Repeateth, Repeating, Repeats, Seeketh, Seeking, Seeks, Separates, Separateth, Separating, Sin, Talking, TransgressionDictionary of Bible Themes Proverbs 17:9 5146 covering
5550 speech, negative
5691 friends, good
5868 gossip
5929 resentment, against people
6109 alienation
6206 offence
8298 love, for one another Library April 8. "A Merry Heart Doeth Good Like a Medicine" (Prov. xvii. 22).
"A merry heart doeth good like a medicine" (Prov. xvii. 22). King Solomon left among his wise sayings a prescription for sick and sad hearts, and it is one that we can safely take. "A merry heart doeth good like a medicine." Joy is the great restorer and healer. Gladness of spirit will bring health to the bones and vitality to the nerves when all other tonics fail, and all other sedatives cease to quiet. Sick one, begin to rejoice in the Lord, and your bones will flourish like an herb, and your cheeks …
Rev. A. B. Simpson—Days of Heaven Upon Earth September 12. "The Furnace for Gold; but the Lord Trieth the Hearts" (Prov. xvii. 3. )
"The furnace for gold; but the Lord trieth the hearts" (Prov. xvii. 3.) Remember that temptation is not sin unless it be accompanied with the consent of your will. There may seem to be even the inclination, and yet the real choice of your spirit is fixed immovably against it, and God regards it simply as a solicitation and credits you with an obedience all the more pleasing to Him, because the temptation was so strong. We little know how evil can find access to a pure nature and seem to incorporate …
Rev. A. B. Simpson—Days of Heaven Upon Earth The Unrivalled Friend
A sermon (No. 899) delivered on Lord's Day morning, November 7th, 1869, at the Metropolitan Tabernacle, Newington, by C. H. Spurgeon. "A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity."--Proverbs 17:17. There is one thing about the usefulness of which all men are agreed, namely, friendship; but most men are soon aware that counterfeits of friendship are common as autumn leaves. Few men enjoy from others the highest and truest form of friendship. The friendships of this world are …
C.H. Spurgeon—Sermons on Proverbs Its Meaning
Deliverance from the condemning sentence of the Divine Law is the fundamental blessing in Divine salvation: so long as we continue under the curse, we can neither be holy nor happy. But as to the precise nature of that deliverance, as to exactly what it consists of, as to the ground on which it is obtained, and as to the means whereby it is secured, much confusion now obtains. Most of the errors which have been prevalent on this subject arose from the lack of a clear view of the thing itself, and …
Arthur W. Pink—The Doctrine of Justification Religion a Weariness to the Natural Man.
"He hath no form nor comeliness; and when we shall see Him, there is no beauty that we should desire Him."--Isaiah liii. 2. "Religion is a weariness;" such is the judgment commonly passed, often avowed, concerning the greatest of blessings which Almighty God has bestowed upon us. And when God gave the blessing, He at the same time foretold that such would be the judgment of the world upon it, even as manifested in the gracious Person of Him whom He sent to give it to us. "He hath no form nor …
John Henry Newman—Parochial and Plain Sermons, Vol. VII The Raising of the Young Man of Nain - the Meeting of Life and Death.
THAT early spring-tide in Galilee was surely the truest realisation of the picture in the Song of Solomon, when earth clad herself in garments of beauty, and the air was melodious with songs of new life. [2625] It seemed as if each day marked a widening circle of deepest sympathy and largest power on the part of Jesus; as if each day also brought fresh surprise, new gladness; opened hitherto unthought-of possibilities, and pointed Israel far beyond the horizon of their narrow expectancy. Yesterday …
Alfred Edersheim—The Life and Times of Jesus the Messiah Cæsarius of Arles.
He was born in the district of Chalons-sur-Saone, A. D. 470. He seems to have been early awakened, by a pious education, to vital Christianity. When he was between seven and eight years old, it would often happen that he would give a portion of his clothes to the poor whom he met, and would say, when he came home, that he had been, constrained to do so. When yet a youth, he entered the celebrated convent on the island of Lerins, (Lerina,) in Provence, from which a spirit of deep and practical piety …
Augustus Neander—Light in the Dark Places Letter xxiv (Circa A. D. 1126) to Oger, Regular Canon
To Oger, Regular Canon [34] Bernard blames him for his resignation of his pastoral charge, although made from the love of a calm and pious life. None the less, he instructs him how, after becoming a private person, he ought to live in community. To Brother Oger, the Canon, Brother Bernard, monk but sinner, wishes that he may walk worthily of God even to the end, and embraces him with the fullest affection. 1. If I seem to have been too slow in replying to your letter, ascribe it to my not having …
Saint Bernard of Clairvaux—Some Letters of Saint Bernard, Abbot of Clairvaux Twenty Second Sunday after Trinity Paul's Thanks and Prayers for Churches.
Text: Philippians 1, 3-11. 3 I thank my God upon all my remembrance of you, 4 always in every supplication of mine on behalf of you all making my supplication with joy, 5 for your fellowship in furtherance of the gospel from the first day until now; 6 being confident of this very thing, that he who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Jesus Christ: 7 even as it is right for me to be thus minded on behalf of you all, because I have you in my heart, inasmuch as, both in my bonds …
Martin Luther—Epistle Sermons, Vol. III How the Silent and the Talkative are to be Admonished.
(Admonition 15.) Differently to be admonished are the over-silent, and those who spend time in much speaking. For it ought to be insinuated to the over-silent that while they shun some vices unadvisedly, they are, without its being perceived, implicated in worse. For often from bridling the tongue overmuch they suffer from more grievous loquacity in the heart; so that thoughts seethe the more in the mind from being straitened by the violent guard of indiscreet silence. And for the most part they …
Leo the Great—Writings of Leo the Great "Thou Shall Keep Him in Perfect Peace, Whose Mind is Stayed on Thee, Because He Trusteth in Thee. "
Isaiah xxvi. 3.--"Thou shall keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee, because he trusteth in thee." All men love to have privileges above others. Every one is upon the design and search after some well-being, since Adam lost that which was true happiness. We all agree upon the general notion of it, but presently men divide in the following of particulars. Here all men are united in seeking after some good; something to satisfy their souls, and satiate their desires. Nay, but they …
Hugh Binning—The Works of the Rev. Hugh Binning An Analysis of Augustin's Writings against the Donatists.
The object of this chapter is to present a rudimentary outline and summary of all that Augustin penned or spoke against those traditional North African Christians whom he was pleased to regard as schismatics. It will be arranged, so far as may be, in chronological order, following the dates suggested by the Benedictine edition. The necessary brevity precludes anything but a very meagre treatment of so considerable a theme. The writer takes no responsibility for the ecclesiological tenets of the …
St. Augustine—writings in connection with the donatist controversy. An Exhortation to Peace and Unity
[ADVERTISEMENT BY THE EDITOR] This treatise was first published in 1688, after Bunyan's death, at the end of the second edition of the Barren Fig Tree, with a black border round the title. It was continued in the third edition 1692, but was subsequently omitted, although the Barren Fig Tree was printed for the same publisher. It has been printed in every edition of Bunyan's Works. Respect for the judgment of others leads me to allow it a place in the first complete edition, although I have serious …
John Bunyan—The Works of John Bunyan Volumes 1-3 The Nature of Justification
Justification in the active sense (iustificatio, {GREEK SMALL LETTER DELTA}{GREEK SMALL LETTER IOTA}{GREEK SMALL LETTER KAPPA}{GREEK SMALL LETTER ALPHA}{GREEK SMALL LETTER IOTA WITH OXIA}{GREEK SMALL LETTER OMEGA}{GREEK SMALL LETTER SIGMA}{GREEK SMALL LETTER IOTA}{GREEK SMALL LETTER FINAL SIGMA}) is defined by the Tridentine Council as "a translation from that state wherein man is born a child of the first Adam, to the state of grace and of the adoption of the sons of God through the second Adam, …
Joseph Pohle—Grace, Actual and Habitual Concerning Justification.
Concerning Justification. As many as resist not this light, but receive the same, it becomes in them an holy, pure, and spiritual birth, bringing forth holiness, righteousness, purity, and all those other blessed fruits which are acceptable to God: by which holy birth, to wit, Jesus Christ formed within us, and working his works in us, as we are sanctified, so are we justified in the sight of God, according to the apostle's words; But ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in …
Robert Barclay—Theses Theologicae and An Apology for the True Christian Divinity Proverbs
Many specimens of the so-called Wisdom Literature are preserved for us in the book of Proverbs, for its contents are by no means confined to what we call proverbs. The first nine chapters constitute a continuous discourse, almost in the manner of a sermon; and of the last two chapters, ch. xxx. is largely made up of enigmas, and xxxi. is in part a description of the good housewife. All, however, are rightly subsumed under the idea of wisdom, which to the Hebrew had always moral relations. The Hebrew …
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