2 Samuel 19:4
But the king covered his face and cried out at the top of his voice, "O my son Absalom! O Absalom, my son, my son!"
But the king
The term "king" here refers to King David, a central figure in the history of Israel and a man after God's own heart (1 Samuel 13:14). David's kingship is marked by both triumph and tragedy, and this moment captures the deep personal sorrow of a ruler who is also a father. The Hebrew word for king, "melek," signifies not just a political leader but one who is supposed to embody the ideals and spiritual leadership of the nation. David's reaction is a reminder of the humanity and vulnerability that even the greatest leaders possess.

covered his face
Covering one's face is a gesture of mourning and deep emotional distress. In ancient Near Eastern cultures, such an act was a public display of grief, often associated with lamentation and sorrow. This action by David signifies his overwhelming grief and perhaps a sense of shame or guilt over the events leading to Absalom's death. It is a poignant reminder of the personal cost of familial and political strife.

and cried out in a loud voice
The phrase "cried out in a loud voice" indicates an intense, audible expression of grief. The Hebrew root "za'aq" often conveys a cry for help or a proclamation of distress. David's loud lamentation underscores the depth of his sorrow and the public nature of his mourning. It reflects the raw, unfiltered emotion of a father who has lost his son, highlighting the personal anguish that transcends his royal status.

O my son Absalom!
The repetition of "my son" emphasizes the personal and familial connection between David and Absalom. Despite Absalom's rebellion, David's love for him remains evident. The name "Absalom" means "father of peace," which is tragically ironic given the conflict he incited. This lamentation reveals the complexity of David's emotions—love, regret, and sorrow intertwined. It serves as a powerful reminder of the enduring bond between parent and child, even amidst betrayal and loss.

O Absalom, my son, my son!
The repetition of "my son" further intensifies the expression of grief. In Hebrew literature, repetition is often used to convey emphasis and emotional depth. David's lament is not just a personal cry but also a reflection of the broader themes of sin, forgiveness, and the consequences of familial discord. This poignant cry echoes through the ages, reminding us of the pain of broken relationships and the hope for reconciliation and redemption through God's grace.

Persons / Places / Events
1. David
The King of Israel, mourning the death of his son Absalom. His grief is profound and public, reflecting his deep love and the complex relationship he had with Absalom.

2. Absalom
David's son, who rebelled against his father in an attempt to take the throne. His death in battle is the cause of David's lament.

3. Mahanaim
The place where David stayed during Absalom's rebellion. It served as a temporary refuge and base of operations for David.

4. Joab
David's military commander, who played a crucial role in the battle against Absalom's forces and later confronted David about his public mourning.

5. The Battle
The conflict between David's forces and those loyal to Absalom, which resulted in Absalom's death and David's subsequent mourning.
Teaching Points
The Depth of Parental Love
David's lament highlights the deep, unconditional love a parent has for their child, even when the child has gone astray. This mirrors God's love for us, despite our rebellion.

The Consequences of Sin and Rebellion
Absalom's rebellion and its tragic end serve as a reminder of the destructive nature of sin and the pain it can cause within families and communities.

The Importance of Grieving
David's public mourning shows the importance of expressing grief. It is a natural and necessary process for healing, even for a king.

Leadership and Responsibility
David's reaction to Absalom's death also raises questions about leadership and responsibility. Leaders must balance personal emotions with their duties to their people.

Forgiveness and Reconciliation
Despite Absalom's betrayal, David's grief suggests a heart willing to forgive. This challenges us to consider our own capacity for forgiveness and reconciliation.
Bible Study Questions
1. How does David's reaction to Absalom's death reflect the nature of God's love for us, even when we rebel against Him?

2. In what ways can we see the consequences of sin and rebellion in our own lives, and how can we seek God's guidance to avoid such paths?

3. How can we balance the need to grieve with the responsibilities we have in our personal and professional lives?

4. What lessons can we learn from David's leadership in this situation, and how can we apply them to our roles in our families, workplaces, and communities?

5. How does the theme of forgiveness in David's lament for Absalom challenge us to forgive those who have wronged us, and what steps can we take towards reconciliation?
Connections to Other Scriptures
2 Samuel 18:33
This verse provides context for David's lament, as it describes his initial reaction to Absalom's death.

Psalm 3
A psalm attributed to David during his flight from Absalom, expressing trust in God amidst adversity.

Luke 15:11-32
The Parable of the Prodigal Son, which echoes themes of a father's love and forgiveness, similar to David's complex feelings for Absalom.
Immoderate GriefB. Dale 2 Samuel 19:1-8
People
Abiathar, Abishai, Absalom, Amasa, Barzillai, Benjamin, Benjamites, Chimham, David, Gera, Israelites, Joab, Joseph, Mephibosheth, Saul, Shimei, Zadok, Zeruiah, Ziba
Places
Bahurim, Gilgal, Jerusalem, Jordan River, Mahanaim, Rogelim
Topics
Absalom, Ab'salom, Aloud, Covered, Covering, Cried, Crieth, Cry, Face, Loud, O, Voice, Yea
Dictionary of Bible Themes
2 Samuel 19:4

     5195   veil
     5567   suffering, emotional
     5865   gestures

2 Samuel 19:1-7

     5088   David, character

2 Samuel 19:4-8

     5087   David, reign of

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National Sorrows and National Lessons
On the illness or the Prince of Wales. Chapel Royal, St James's, December 17th, 1871. 2 Sam. xix. 14. "He bowed the heart of all the men of Judah, even as the heart of one man." No circumstances can be more different, thank God, than those under which the heart of the men of Judah was bowed when their king commander appealed to them, and those which have, in the last few days, bowed the heart of this nation as the heart of one man. But the feeling called out in each case was the same--Loyalty,
Charles Kingsley—All Saints' Day and Other Sermons

Barzillai
BY REV. GEORGE MILLIGAN, M.A., D.D. "There is nothing," says Socrates to Cephalus in the Republic, "I like better than conversing with aged men. For I regard them as travellers who have gone a journey which I too may have to go, and of whom it is right to learn the character of the way, whether it is rugged or difficult, or smooth and easy" (p. 328 E.). It is to such an aged traveller that we are introduced in the person of Barzillai the Gileadite. And though he is one of the lesser-known characters
George Milligan—Men of the Bible; Some Lesser-Known

Samuel
Alike from the literary and the historical point of view, the book[1] of Samuel stands midway between the book of Judges and the book of Kings. As we have already seen, the Deuteronomic book of Judges in all probability ran into Samuel and ended in ch. xii.; while the story of David, begun in Samuel, embraces the first two chapters of the first book of Kings. The book of Samuel is not very happily named, as much of it is devoted to Saul and the greater part to David; yet it is not altogether inappropriate,
John Edgar McFadyen—Introduction to the Old Testament

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