Dictionary of Bible Themes » 5000 Humanity » 5650 Human relationships » 5732 polygamy
The practice of having more than one wife at one time. Although not explicitly forbidden in Scripture as a general practice, it is presented as problematic and monogamy is the clearly preferred option.
Monogamy is God's intention for marriage
Genesis 2:24 See also Jeremiah 2:2; Hosea 2:19-20; Ephesians 5:31
Early examples of polygamy
Genesis 4:19 See also Genesis 26:34; Genesis 28:9; Genesis 29:28
Reasons for the practice of polygamy
Sealing foreign treaties
1 Kings 3:1 See also 1 Kings 16:31
Producing offspring
Genesis 16:1-3; 2 Chronicles 13:21 A large family, and especially numerous progeny, was regarded as a sign of divine blessing. See also Genesis 30:3-5,9; Judges 8:30; 2 Samuel 3:1-5; 1 Chronicles 7:4; 2 Chronicles 11:23; 2 C 2-3
Problems associated with polygamy
Being led away from God
Deuteronomy 17:17 It was common for kings to cement foreign alliances by marriage. Israel's king is warned against the practice ; 1 Kings 11:1-8 See also Nehemiah 13:25-26; Malachi 2:11
Conflicts within families
Genesis 29:30; Genesis 30:1; Deuteronomy 21:15-17 See also Genesis 16:4-6 Sarah and Hagar; 1 Samuel 1:4-7 Hannah and Peninnah; 2 Chronicles 11:21-22; 1 Kings 1:11-13 the conflict over the succession to David's throne
Further examples of polygamy
2 Samuel 5:13 pp 1 Chronicles 14:3 See also 1 Samuel 25:40-43; 2 Samuel 12:8-9; 1 Kings 20:5 Ahab; 2 Kings 24:15 Jehoiachin; 1 Chronicles 4:5 Ashhur; Daniel 5:2 Belshazzar
Restrictions on polygamous relationships
Genesis 31:50; Exodus 21:10; Leviticus 18:18
Polygamy forbidden
1 Corinthians 7:2; 1 Timothy 3:2 Polygamy is expressly forbidden for church leaders.
See also
5672 concubines 5680 family 5702 husband 5708 marriage 5717 monogamy 5744 wife 8252 faithfulness, relationships