1 Kings 20:3
saying, "This is what Ben-hadad says: 'Your silver and gold are mine, and your best wives and children are mine!'"
Your silver and gold are mine
This phrase reflects the demands of Ben-hadad, the king of Aram, upon Ahab, the king of Israel. The demand for silver and gold signifies a claim over Israel's wealth and resources. In the ancient Near Eastern context, such demands were common in vassal treaties where a more powerful king would assert dominance over a lesser king. The Hebrew word for "silver" (כֶּסֶף, keseph) and "gold" (זָהָב, zahav) are often used in the Old Testament to denote wealth and prosperity. This demand highlights the vulnerability of Israel at this time and the pressure Ahab faced from external threats. Spiritually, it can be seen as a test of faith and reliance on God rather than material wealth.

and your best wives and children are mine as well
The demand for "your best wives and children" underscores the severity and personal nature of Ben-hadad's threat. In ancient times, taking wives and children was a way to ensure submission and loyalty, as it directly affected the personal and familial honor of the king. The Hebrew word for "wives" (נָשִׁים, nashim) and "children" (בָּנִים, banim) indicates not just a physical possession but a deeper intrusion into the personal and dynastic life of Ahab. This demand can be seen as an attack on the future and legacy of Israel, as children represent the continuation of a family line. From a spiritual perspective, this highlights the importance of trusting in God's protection over one's family and future, rather than succumbing to fear and intimidation from worldly powers.

Persons / Places / Events
1. Ben-Hadad
The king of Aram (Syria) who besieged Samaria and sent a message to Ahab, demanding his wealth and family.

2. Ahab
The king of Israel, known for his weak leadership and idolatry, who received Ben-Hadad's demands.

3. Samaria
The capital city of the Northern Kingdom of Israel, under siege by Ben-Hadad's forces.

4. Aram (Syria)
A neighboring kingdom to Israel, often in conflict with Israel during this period.

5. Siege of Samaria
The event where Ben-Hadad and his coalition of kings besieged the city, leading to the demands made in 1 Kings 20:3.
Teaching Points
The Dangers of Compromise
Ahab's initial willingness to comply with Ben-Hadad's demands shows the danger of compromising with evil. Believers are called to stand firm in their faith and not yield to ungodly pressures.

God's Sovereignty in Conflict
Despite Ahab's weaknesses, God later intervenes to deliver Israel. This demonstrates that God's plans and purposes prevail, even when human leaders fail.

The Cost of Idolatry
Ahab's idolatry and disobedience to God left Israel vulnerable to external threats. Idolatry in our lives can similarly lead to spiritual and moral vulnerability.

Leadership and Responsibility
Ahab's poor leadership highlights the importance of godly leadership. Leaders are called to protect and serve their people, not capitulate to threats.

Trust in God's Deliverance
The broader account of 1 Kings 20 shows that God can deliver His people from seemingly impossible situations, encouraging believers to trust in His power and timing.
Bible Study Questions
1. How does Ahab's response to Ben-Hadad's demands reflect his character and leadership? What can we learn from this about the importance of godly leadership?

2. In what ways do we face similar pressures to compromise in our faith today? How can we stand firm against such pressures?

3. How does the account of God's deliverance in 1 Kings 20 encourage us to trust in God's sovereignty in our own lives?

4. What are some modern-day "idols" that can leave us spiritually vulnerable, and how can we guard against them?

5. How can we apply the lessons from Ahab's failures to our own roles as leaders, whether in our families, workplaces, or communities?
Connections to Other Scriptures
1 Kings 21
Ahab's character is further revealed in his dealings with Naboth, showing his tendency to capitulate to stronger personalities, like Jezebel and Ben-Hadad.

2 Kings 6-7
Another siege of Samaria, highlighting God's deliverance of Israel despite their unfaithfulness.

Exodus 20:17
The commandment against coveting, which Ben-Hadad's demands directly violate, showing a lack of respect for God's law.

Proverbs 25:28
Ahab's lack of self-control and leadership is akin to a city broken into and left without walls, illustrating his vulnerability to external threats.
The Spirit of WarJ.A. Macdonald 1 Kings 20:1-11
Veiled MerciesJ. Urquhart 1 Kings 20:1-21
People
Ahab, Aram, Ben, Benhadad, Ben-hadad, Hadad, Israelites, Syrians
Places
Aphek, Damascus, Samaria, Syria
Topics
Beautiful, Ben-hadad, Best, Comely, Fairest, Gold, Goodliest, Says, Silver, Sons, Thus, Wives
Dictionary of Bible Themes
1 Kings 20:1-6

     4333   gold

1 Kings 20:2-9

     5594   tribute

Library
The Lost Opportunity
TEXT: "And as thy servant was busy here and there, he was gone. And the king of Israel said unto him, So shall thy judgment be; thyself hast decided it."--1 Kings 20:40. There is a very striking incident connected with this text. The great battle is raging, a certain important prisoner has been taken, and if you read between the lines you seem to know that upon him depend many of the issues of war. His skill in leading the enemy had been marvelous, his courage in the thick of the fight striking;
J. Wilbur Chapman—And Judas Iscariot

Putting on the Armour
And the king of Israel answered and said. Tell him. Let not him that girdeth on his harness boast himself as he that putteth it off.'--1 KINGS xx. 11. For the Young. Ahab, King of Israel, was but a poor creature, and, like most weak characters, he turned out a wicked one, because he found that there were more temptations to do wrong than inducements to do right. Like other weak people, too, he was torn asunder by the influence of stronger wills. On the one side he had a termagant of a wife, stirring
Alexander Maclaren—Expositions of Holy Scripture

The Section Chap. I. -iii.
The question which here above all engages our attention, and requires to be answered, is this: Whether that which is reported in these chapters did, or did not, actually and outwardly take place. The history of the inquiries connected with this question is found most fully in Marckius's "Diatribe de uxore fornicationum," Leyden, 1696, reprinted in the Commentary on the Minor Prophets by the same author. The various views may be divided into three classes. 1. It is maintained by very many interpreters,
Ernst Wilhelm Hengstenberg—Christology of the Old Testament

The Letter of the Synod to the Emperor and Empress.
(Labbe and Cossart, Concilia, Tom. VII., col. 577.) To our most religious and most serene princes, Constantine and Irene his mother. Tarasius, the unworthy bishop of your God-protected royal city, new Rome, and all the holy Council which met at the good pleasure of God and upon the command of your Christ-loving majesty in the renowned metropolis of Nice, the second council to assemble in this city. Christ our God (who is the head of the Church) was glorified, most noble princes, when your heart,
Philip Schaff—The Seven Ecumenical Councils

Nature of the Renderings
From the text we now turn to the renderings, and to the general principles that were followed, both in the Old and in the New Testament. The revision of the English text was in each case subject to the same general rule, viz. "To introduce as few alterations as possible into the Text of the Authorised Version consistently with faithfulness"; but, owing to the great difference between the two languages, the Hebrew and the Greek, the application of the rule was necessarily different, and the results
C. J. Ellicott—Addresses on the Revised Version of Holy Scripture

The Practice of Piety in Glorifying God in the Time of Sickness, and when Thou Art Called to Die in the Lord.
As soon as thou perceivest thyself to be visited with any sickness, meditate with thyself: 1. That "misery cometh not forth of the dust; neither doth affliction spring out of the earth." Sickness comes not by hap or chance (as the Philistines supposed that their mice and emrods came, 1 Sam. vi. 9), but from man's wickedness, which, as sparkles, breaketh out. "Man suffereth," saith Jeremiah, "for his sins." "Fools," saith David, "by reason of their transgressions, and because of their iniquities,
Lewis Bayly—The Practice of Piety

The Twelve Minor Prophets.
1. By the Jewish arrangement, which places together the twelve minor prophets in a single volume, the chronological order of the prophets as a whole is broken up. The three greater prophets, Isaiah, Jeremiah, and Ezekiel, stand in the true order of time. Daniel began to prophesy before Ezekiel, but continued, many years after him. The Jewish arrangement of the twelve minor prophets is in a sense chronological; that is, they put the earlier prophets at the beginning, and the later at the end of the
E. P. Barrows—Companion to the Bible

Tiglath-Pileser iii. And the Organisation of the Assyrian Empire from 745 to 722 B. C.
TIGLATH-PILESER III. AND THE ORGANISATION OF THE ASSYRIAN EMPIRE FROM 745 to 722 B.C. FAILURE OF URARTU AND RE-CONQUEST Of SYRIA--EGYPT AGAIN UNITED UNDER ETHIOPIAN AUSPICES--PIONKHI--THE DOWNFALL OF DAMASCUS, OF BABYLON, AND OF ISRAEL. Assyria and its neighbours at the accession of Tiglath-pileser III.: progress of the Aramaeans in the basin of the Middle Tigris--Urartu and its expansion into the north of Syria--Damascus and Israel--Vengeance of Israel on Damascus--Jeroboam II.--Civilisation
G. Maspero—History Of Egypt, Chaldaea, Syria, Babylonia, and Assyria, V 7

Kings
The book[1] of Kings is strikingly unlike any modern historical narrative. Its comparative brevity, its curious perspective, and-with some brilliant exceptions--its relative monotony, are obvious to the most cursory perusal, and to understand these things is, in large measure, to understand the book. It covers a period of no less than four centuries. Beginning with the death of David and the accession of Solomon (1 Kings i., ii.) it traverses his reign with considerable fulness (1 Kings iii.-xi.),
John Edgar McFadyen—Introduction to the Old Testament

Links
1 Kings 20:3 NIV
1 Kings 20:3 NLT
1 Kings 20:3 ESV
1 Kings 20:3 NASB
1 Kings 20:3 KJV

1 Kings 20:3 Commentaries

Bible Hub
1 Kings 20:2
Top of Page
Top of Page