The Claims of Friendship
1 Samuel 20:20-37
And I will shoot three arrows on the side thereof, as though I shot at a mark.…


I. THE ARROWS TAUGHT THAT A STRONG AND NOBLE FRIEND WAS STANDING IN THE BREACH.

1. Never be ashamed to own a friend. Do not count him your friend whose name you are ashamed to mention.

2. Never be ashamed to speak up for the cause of Truth. Let the arrows witness to the simplicity and fervour of your allegiance to whatever is lovely and of good report.

II. THE ARROWS SPOKE OF IMMINENT DANGER. "Jonathan knew that it was determined of his father to put David to death." "The arrows are beyond thee." You have hoped against hope; you have tried to keep your position; you have done your duty, pleaded your cause, sought the intercession of your friends, prayed, wept, agonized: but it is all in vain; the arrow's flight proves that you must go whither you may. But take these thoughts for your comfort.

1. There are things we never leave behind. David had an inalienable possession in the love of his friend, in the devotion of the people, in the memory of God's goodness. There are threads woven into the fabric of our life which can never be extracted or obliterated.

2. There is a Divine purpose determining our course. To the had there was but royal caprice in the flight of the arrow. "What are you going, my little fellow?" "I am picking up the prince's arrows; we generally go for game, but he is playing at it today." That was all he knew; how little did he divine the purpose of his Master, and still less realise that each flitting arrow was, so to speak, taken from God's quiver and directed by His hand. There is no chance in a good man's life. Let us recognise the providence of the trifle. He is sending us away.

3. The going forth is necessary to secure greater happiness than we leave. Had David lingered in the palace, his life would have been forfeited, and he would have missed all the glory and bliss with which his cup ran over in after years. This was the way to the throne. Follow the arrow's flight then — beyond the warm circle in which you bare so long sheltered; beyond the southland to the icy north; beyond the known to the unknown. Like another Abraham, go into the land which God will show thee; like another Columbus, turn thy prow in the wake of the setting sun.

III. THE ARROWS TAUGHT THAT HUMAN LOVE MUST SUFFER SEPARATION. This was the lash meeting of these two noble hearts for a long time. Indeed, the friends only met once more, shortly before Jonathan's death. They had realised that this must be so. These are the hours that leave sears on hearts and whiten the hair. Christ comes to us in these dark moments as of old to the disciples, on whom had broken the full import of his departure. "Let not your hearts be troubled."

(F. B. Meyer, B. A.)



Parallel Verses
KJV: And I will shoot three arrows on the side thereof, as though I shot at a mark.

WEB: I will shoot three arrows on its side, as though I shot at a mark.




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