Children Impressed by Gentle Rule
Proverbs 29:15
The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself brings his mother to shame.

It is a great mistake to suppose that what will make a child stare or tremble impresses more authority. The violent emphasis, the hard, stormy voice, the menacing air only weakens authority; it commands a good thing as if it were only a bad, and fit to be no way impressed, save by some stress of assumption. Let the command be always given quietly, as if it had some right in itself and could utter itself to the conscience by some emphasis of its own. Is it not well understood that a bawling and violent teamster has no real government of his team? Is it not practically seen that a skilful commander of one of those huge floating cities, moved by steam on our American waters, manages and works every motion by the waving of a hand, or by signs that pass in silence — issuing no order at all, save in the gentlest undertone of voice? So when there is, or is to be, a real order and law in the house, it will come of no hard and boisterous or fretful and termagent way of commandment. Gentleness will speak the word of firmness, and firmness will be clothed in the airs of true gentleness.

(H. Bushnell.)

Parallel Verses
KJV: The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.

WEB: The rod of correction gives wisdom, but a child left to himself causes shame to his mother.

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