1. What does the Shulammite woman's desire for an open display of love reveal about societal norms during this time? How does this compare to your society?

2. How does the metaphor of love as a fire symbolize its intensity and persistence?

3. How does the conversation among the Shulammite woman's brothers demonstrate their concern for her purity? What lessons can we draw from their protective instinct?

4. How does the Shulammite woman demonstrate self-confidence and virtue in verse 10?

5. Why do you think vineyards are repeatedly used as a metaphor in this book?

6. What does the Shulammite woman's yearning in the final verse convey about the nature of love and longing?

7. How does the book's portrayal of love compare to modern depictions of love in media and culture?

8. How might the themes of openness and acceptance in love be applicable in your relationships?

9. How does the concept of love "as strong as death" and "unyielding as the grave" resonate with you?

10. What can we learn from the Shulammite woman's assertion of her love only for her beloved?

11. How do societal norms impact the expression of love in your culture today?

12. What do the dynamics between the Shulammite woman and her brothers teach us about sibling relationships?

13. How can we preserve and protect love in our relationships?

14. What lessons does the book offer about the importance of purity in love?

15. How can the imagery and symbolism in the Song of Solomon deepen our understanding of love's power?

16. How does the desire for acceptance shape our relationships today?

17. How can we apply the lessons about love's sacrifice in our daily lives?

18. How does the chapter portray the balance between yearning and fulfillment in love?

19. What lessons about enduring love can you apply in your personal life?

20. In what ways can you cultivate an "unquenchable" love in your own relationships?