1. How did David demonstrate his integrity in this chapter?

2. Why do you think David refrained from taking Saul's life even when he had the chance?

3. How does David's respect for Saul, despite his pursuit, apply to our attitude towards authorities today?

4. How did David show his trust in God's timing and justice?

5. What does this chapter teach us about vengeance and God's sovereignty?

6. What lessons can we learn from David's actions when dealing with an enemy?

7. How does David's handling of the situation contrast with how we typically handle conflict?

8. How does David's confrontation with Abner challenge the notions of responsibility and duty?

9. In what ways does Saul's reaction to David's mercy reflect genuine remorse and change?

10. How can we apply David's attitude of non-retaliation in our relationships today?

11. How does the principle of respect for God's anointed apply in contemporary society?

12. Why doyou think David did not return with Saul after their conversation?

13. How can we practice the same kind of mercy that David showed Saul in our daily lives?

14. How does God’s providential protection over David challenge us to trust in Him during perilous times?

15. What does David’s decision to spare Saul’s life teach us about personal ethics and moral dilemmas?

16. How can we display integrity and trust in God when faced with unjust treatment?

17. How can we discern when to act and when to wait for God’s timing in difficult situations?

18. How does David's approach to conflict resolution with Saul provide a model for us today?

19. How can this story of mercy and non-retaliation help us in dealing with our adversaries today?

20. How does the narrative of David sparing Saul’s life challenge our perception of justice, retribution, and forgiveness?