"Look," said Absalom, "I sent for you and said, 'Come here. I want to send you to the king to ask: Why have I come back from Geshur? It would be better for me if I were still there.' So now, let me see the king's face, and if there is iniquity in me, let him kill me." Bible Study Questions and Answers 1. What is the meaning of 2 Samuel 14:32? 2. Why does Absalom request to see the king in 2 Samuel 14:32? 3. How does Absalom's plea reflect his relationship with King David? 4. What does Absalom's statement reveal about justice and accountability in leadership? 5. How can we apply Absalom's persistence in seeking resolution to our conflicts? 6. What other biblical examples show the importance of confronting unresolved issues? 7. Why did Absalom insist on seeing the king in 2 Samuel 14:32? 8. What does Absalom's request reveal about his character in 2 Samuel 14:32? 9. How does 2 Samuel 14:32 reflect the theme of reconciliation and justice? 10. What are the top 10 Lessons from 2 Samuel 14? 11. Who is Absalom in historical or biblical context? 12. What is the essence of Absalom's Spirit? 13. 2 Samuel 14:21-24: Why would David, a supposedly just king, rely on subterfuge rather than open negotiation to resolve Absalom's banishment? 14. 2 Samuel 6:14 - How plausible is David's public dancing without concern for royal decorum, given the cultural norms of ancient Near Eastern kings? Discussion Questions 1. What can we learn from Absalom's approach to seeking reconciliation with King David, and how can we apply this in our own relationships?2. How does the account of Absalom and David compare to the Parable of the Prodigal Son in Luke 15, and what does this teach us about forgiveness? 3. In what ways can we act as intermediaries like Joab to help others reconcile their broken relationships? 4. How does Hebrews 12:14-15 encourage us to pursue peace, and what practical steps can we take to avoid bitterness in our lives? 5. Reflect on a time when you had to face the consequences of your actions. How did you approach the situation, and what did you learn from it about accountability and courage?1. How does Joab manipulate David's feelings for Absalom? How can we guard against manipulation in our own lives? 2. In what ways does the wise woman's story mirror David's own situation? 3. How does David initially respond to the plea of the wise woman from Tekoa? What does this reveal about his character? 4. What does Absalom's time in Jerusalem, without seeing David, indicate about their relationship? 5. How does Absalom's frustration reflect in his actions towards Joab and David? 6. What does David's decision to reconcile with Absalom tell us about forgiveness and reconciliation? 7. How does this chapter showcase the theme of family relationships in terms of forgiveness, manipulation, and justice? 8. How does this chapter reflect on the effects of unresolved guilt? 9. How might David's role as a king have influenced his actions as a father? 10. How do political and personal interests intertwine in this chapter? 11. How would you handle a situation similar to David's, in which you have unresolved issues with a family member? 12. What lessons can you draw from David and Absalom's relationship? 13. How can this story guide us in handling conflicts within our families? 14. How does the narrative of the woman from Tekoa inspire empathy? How important is empathy in our everyday relationships? 15. How can we relate the concept of "seeking justice" as shown in Absalom's demand to our present day situations? 16. Why do you think David agreed to Absalom's demand for justice? 17. How does Absalom's physical beauty (as described in verses 25-27) play a part in his story? How does society today place emphasis on physical appearance? 18. In what ways can we apply the themes of forgiveness and reconciliation in this chapter to our own lives? 19. How would you handle feelings of guilt and regret like David’s in your personal context? 20. What are the potential consequences of avoiding direct confrontation of our personal issues as shown in this chapter? Links 2 Samuel 14:32 NIV2 Samuel 14:32 NLT 2 Samuel 14:32 ESV 2 Samuel 14:32 NASB 2 Samuel 14:32 KJV 2 Samuel 14:32 Commentaries Bible Hub |



