2 Samuel 13:22
And Absalom never said a word to Amnon, either good or bad, because he hated Amnon for disgracing his sister Tamar.
Bible Study Questions and Answers
1. What is the meaning of 2 Samuel 13:22?

2. How does 2 Samuel 13:22 illustrate the consequences of harboring anger and resentment?

3. What can we learn from Absalom's silence in 2 Samuel 13:22?

4. How does Ephesians 4:26-27 relate to Absalom's response in 2 Samuel 13:22?

5. How should Christians address anger to prevent sin, as seen in 2 Samuel 13:22?

6. What steps can we take to resolve conflicts biblically, avoiding Absalom's approach?

7. Why did Absalom remain silent toward Amnon in 2 Samuel 13:22?

8. How does 2 Samuel 13:22 reflect on justice and forgiveness?

9. What cultural norms influenced Absalom's reaction in 2 Samuel 13:22?

10. What are the top 10 Lessons from 2 Samuel 13?

11. Are there any archaeological discoveries or historical records supporting the events in 2 Samuel 13?

12. What is the essence of Absalom's Spirit?

13. Why does David seem to do nothing about Amnon’s crime in 2 Samuel 13:21?

14. 2 Samuel 14:33: If David truly forgave Absalom when he finally saw him, why does Absalom soon rebel, suggesting either incomplete reconciliation or narrative inconsistency?
Discussion Questions
1. How does Absalom's silent hatred towards Amnon reflect the dangers of harboring unresolved anger in our own lives?

2. In what ways can we ensure that justice and righteousness are upheld in our families and communities, as opposed to the inaction seen in King David?

3. How can the account of Absalom and Amnon inform our understanding of the importance of addressing sin and seeking reconciliation?

4. What steps can we take to forgive those who have wronged us, in light of the destructive power of hatred demonstrated by Absalom?

5. How does this passage challenge us to examine our own family dynamics and align them with biblical principles of love and respect?1. Reflect on Amnon's destructive "love" for Tamar. How does his behavior deviate from the biblical definition of love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7?

2. How did Jonadab's counsel to Amnon exacerbate the situation? What does this teach about the significance of the advice we give and receive?

3. Why do you think King David did not take any action against Amnon? How might David's own past sin with Bathsheba affect his ability to administer justice in this case?

4. Absalom's revenge resulted in murder. Discuss alternative approaches Absalom could have taken for justice.

5. How did Tamar's violation impact her life and her family's dynamic?

6. How does the treatment of Tamar reflect the culture and attitudes of her time? How does this compare to current day issues of violence against women?

7. How might Tamar's story inspire advocacy for victims of sexual violence today?

8. What does this chapter teach about the long-term impacts of sin on individuals and their families?

9. Reflect on David's reaction when he hears about Amnon's death. How might he be dealing with the consequences of his family's disarray?

10. In what ways does this story reflect societal issues today?

11. In the light of this chapter, how can the Church better support victims of sexual abuse?

12. How can families today learn from the negative examples of communication and relationships in David's family?

13. How could intervention have changed the outcome of this story?

14. What does this chapter teach us about the danger of unchecked desires?

15. If you were a friend of Tamar, how would you comfort and help her during her ordeal?

16. How does the story demonstrate the consequences of passive leadership?

17. What steps could David have taken to prevent this tragedy within his family?

18. How can we use Tamar's story to educate and prevent similar instances of harm today?

19. In what ways can our own passions mislead us, as Amnon's did him?

20. How can this tragic event encourage believers to engage more actively in advocating for justice?

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