William G. Tomer (born October 5, 1833)

William G. Tomer was born on October 5, 1833, and later became an American Civil War veteran. The war tested a generation with grief, separation, and the long shadow that follows men home from battlefields. Tomer’s life stands as a reminder that hardship does not have the final word, and that service marked by sacrifice can still be turned toward worship. Where conflict taught many to fear farewells, Tomer helped the church sing them with faith.

The courage associated with wartime duty is often described as endurance under fire. Yet Christian heroism also includes the quieter resolve to pursue what is good after the fighting ends—to comfort the sorrowing, to strengthen the weak, and to point hearts back to God’s steady care. Scripture speaks plainly to such seasons: “The LORD Himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged” (Deuteronomy 31:8).

FAREWELL (tune) and “God Be With You Till We Meet Again”

Tomer is remembered especially for the tune FAREWELL, commonly sung with the hymn “God Be With You Till We Meet Again.” Joined to those well-known words, his melody carries a simple confession suited to hospital rooms, gravesides, station platforms, and church doors: God’s presence goes with His people. The hymn does not deny pain; it frames parting within providence. Even when believers cannot protect one another, they entrust one another to the Lord who can.

This is the spiritual weight of a Christian goodbye: not a sentimental wish, but a prayer grounded in covenant faithfulness. “The LORD will watch over your coming and going, both now and forevermore” (Psalm 121:8).

Enduring Promise and Temporary Goodbyes

FAREWELL has steadied countless hearts because it aligns with the hope of Christ. For those who belong to Him, separation is real, but it is not ultimate. Jesus said, “In My Father’s house are many rooms… I am going there to prepare a place for you” (John 14:2). The church continues to sing Tomer’s tune as a testimony that God keeps His own—and that every farewell is temporary in light of resurrection and reunion.