and seek

Proverbs 13:10
Arrogance leads only to strife, but wisdom is with the well-advised.

Matthew 20:21, 22
"What do you want?" He asked. She answered, "Declare that in Your kingdom one of these two sons of mine will sit at Your right hand, and the other at Your left." . . .

Luke 22:24
A dispute also arose among the disciples as to which of them would be considered the greatest.

Romans 12:10
Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Outdo yourselves in honoring one another.

Philippians 2:3
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty pride, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves.

3 John 1:9
I have written to the church about this, but Diotrephes, who loves to be first, will not accept our instruction.